he's still in love with his xgf, but he recently found out that his xgf is getting married to someone else. but the thing is both of them have still feelings for each other. i really love this guy but i don't know what to do anymore. should i just try to get over him? or wait till he gets over the girl then i come into his life? please advice...
2006-09-05 05:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by cutiefannick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him, You can't make him stop loving someone else.
2006-09-05 05:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you that he still loves her, or is this what you think? Once you know for sure that he does still love this woman, then you need to move on. You deserve a man who thinks you are the best woman on earth. It is going to be tough, and it's going to hurt. But if he stays with you, he's just using you as a place holder until this other one is available. You deserve sooo much better. Waiting for something that will never happen is a waste of your life.
2006-09-05 12:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Susan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl. I think the guy's ex-gf should get back with him since they have feelings towards each other. I noe it hard since you really love tt guy. But the issue here is tt he's still thinking abt her. Everyone cannot have 2 most impt ppl in their life. Our heart have only room from one. And the case now seems tt you're not in his heart. Im sorry for being so direct but i'd rather not see you fall even deeper. Heed my advice, until he is completely over her, u should juz move on. Give each other space. Best of luck.
2006-09-05 13:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by zeco2410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the ex is getting married then obviously she's moving on. It sounds like your boyfriend does too then. There are some exes we will always have lingering feelings for. It's up to you if you want to try and continue a relationship with him.
2006-09-05 12:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do right now is nothing....if he has feelings for someone else then you can not make him get over it...he will get over this when he realizes she is marrying someone else......another thing...the heart wants what it wants...so if you want to wait for him to get over her i think there is nothing wrong with that....for now just be a good friend to him...afterall, they say friends sometimes end up being the best lovers
2006-09-05 12:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go now. It will only be harder later on. If he is still in love with her she will always be in his thoughts. Wait until he is over her.
2006-09-05 12:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. his feelings wont go away. you'll always be girl #2, and if you can live with that go for it, but i'd like to find the guy who knows i'm his #1
2006-09-05 12:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go.. Because you shouln't be punished like that... You love him but if he still doesn't feel the same then you shouln't be hurting yourself that way... If its meant to be then he will come back.
2006-09-05 12:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he's not ready to move on so dump him..
2006-09-05 12:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋