He cheated on me oce, and now he swears never to do it again, but I can't let go, and I'm suspicious about every little things, I even imagine him cheating when I can't locate him. Is this normal, or am I losing it? I don't trust him now. How do I gain control of myself.
2006-09-05 05:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by molly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dumb Him !
2006-09-05 05:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal, what you are doing cannot be blamed, he deserves it although its no good for your relationship.
I think you are losing it as i think that any relationship changes when there is unfaithfulness.
I don't blame you. He's done it once and there is a probability that he'll do it again because he's prov-en it
He might really change but i don't know the story. Did he do it early in the relationship when maybe love was no such big deal and now Love has grown bigger??
As there might be a chance that he won't do it again, to control your self always keep in mind that things everything happens for a reason, trust him, give him a chance, don't think about it and relax yourself, remember his swear. If he do it again and you have real proves, don't look at him again
2006-09-05 05:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once a cheater is always a cheater. It's like an addiction, and as we all know very few ever beat their addiction. Sooner or later he is going to cheat again. The best thing to do is to dump him now and save yourself the heartache and potential STDs
2006-09-05 05:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE control of yourself! Yourself is telling you "This guy is a sleaze! I cant trust a darn thing about him!" Do not deny what yourself is telling you, it will lead to horrendous problems.
Statistics show that if a partner cheats on you once, they will do it again. it's just something they do. They cannot commit to monogamy.
You are going crazy though, and for one reason: You wont listen to yourself! Dump him and never look back.
2006-09-05 05:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by aiji.tenchijin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute....he cheated on you and you're wondering why you can't seem to trust him anymore???? Maybe because HE CHEATED ON YOU!!!
It's not abnormal to feel this way, but it is abnormal to keep going out with him. Say goodbye to him now.
2006-09-05 05:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by paladin12002000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people never change he will do it again,once a cheat always a cheater.
2006-09-05 05:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him there is probally a good reason. When trust is gone it's time to move on. Good Luck!!
2006-09-05 05:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheated on you once and you didn't leave... don't you think he'll try to take advantage of that again? get rid of him.
2006-09-05 05:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now!!!!!! You will drive yourself crazy and he is not worth it.
2006-09-05 06:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by dettie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater...always a cheater
2006-09-05 05:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋