So yur on vacation and you dont have service and its basically impossible to communicate with anyone back home. But yur only gone for like 4 days...and assume all the details are true.
Your boyfriend is gonna go on a guy's night out so his friends go in a cab...he doesnt know why they're going to the city tho. When they're almost there his friends tell him they're going to a strip club. So he goes (pays to get in) no lap dances, nothing like that, juss sits at the stage with the guys for little then goes and sits at the bar the rest of the time.
Would you ladies care?
Jw :)
2006-09-05 04:43:48 · 35 answers · asked by babeegurl494 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Juss a couple more details...
right now hes living on his own, its been about two months, so he cant afford a lap dance lol
and he did end up there without knowing, his friends told him they were juss gonan hang out in the city cayse they know he would never go for it if he knew
2006-09-05 04:50:22 · update #1
ooh, and i trust what he says because hes the kinda of guy, if you say it hurts you that he hangs out with his friends sometimes instead of you, he wont do it. Even if im out with my friend, hed sit at home. He's verry honest with me
2006-09-05 04:54:57 · update #2
I'm not gay, but you shouldn't worry, if my friends did that with me and i had a gf, i would do exactly what he did, he didnt want be a ***** about it and go home, what he did was completely appropriate, please don't be mad at him
2006-09-05 04:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would care and be upset but not just at my man, but at his friends. If they'd told him up front as he says, then he wouldn't have gone. But if what he did at the strip club is true than I'd be proud of him for not giving in and just letting it all hang out. You have to give your man trust and space if the relationship is going to work. Tell him that you'll let this time drop because you believe what he's told you, you have no reason to believe other wise right? But also let him know that in the future it is not cool for him to go to a strip club. Tell him that if that situation arises again that you would like him to call another cab and come home to you. If he wants a strip show, you do it! At least that way he doesn't have to pay anything and most likely he's going to get to sleep with the dancer.
2006-09-05 04:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't care. it really isn't a big deal if a man goes to a strip club. If he starts going once or twice a week then that's a problem. If you have a problem with you man going the I suggest you put on something sexy, throw on some music dim the lights and start DROPPIN IT LIKE IT'S HOT!!! That way he will have no reason to go to a strip club
2006-09-05 04:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This story is so full of holes it's ridiculous! No one who enjoys women and ends up at a strip club will sit at the bar ignoring the action! Get real, girlfriend!! Does the word "LIAR!" come to mind? What kind of friends are these anyway???
2006-09-05 05:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knew. But so what. Men like to look at women, we all know this. Unless he got that lap dance. Or went home with a stripper, not really a big deal. You should tell him not to lie to you next time he wants to go though, it makes it seem more suspicious.
2006-09-05 04:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But would he jus sit at the bar .... my thoughts are NO.. I have to say when my boyf went to rhinos for his birthday i wasn at all pleased.. Payin to get in those skanky places.. He says he didn have a private dance!! Il do a dance for him in my underwear and he can put money in my pants. I need some new shoes.. But anyway yes i do care.. what u need to go to those places wen you'v got a girl friend!
2006-09-05 04:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by rochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i've got been you i wouldnt decrease the straps off your bra, i did that throughout the time of the previous and once you place it on the suited of your bra flops foward, so the main suitable element to do is get a strapless one or a classic bra with sparkling staps. in case you purchase a strapless bra make specific its wisely equipped on your length. additionally it wouldnt carry your boobs up as much as a under pressure bra might. What ever your gentle in is what you're able to purchase, pass to a sturdy undies save and attempt some directly to work out what you like. yet a under pressure one might carry sucure your babes greater clever.
2016-10-01 08:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would care, that is completly disrespectful but people tell me I need to relax. I say I know what I want and I don't want my man looking at other women or putting himself in that position. your man could have used the money he paid to get in to take another cab home. He isn't as innocent as he says.
2006-09-05 04:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing me, it would bother me a little bit at first; but as long as he doesn't flirt with the strippers or even hooks up with them, then it wouldn't matter. Just entertainment I suppose. Although another form of entertainment would be much better.
2006-09-05 04:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes going to a strip club he is getting a lap dance.
2006-09-05 04:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would care but not to the point i dont trust him bc u should have trust in yo bf at all times unless he cheated on u before u might be lucky and b one of the few lucky girls to have a faithful bf.
2006-09-05 04:47:23 · answer #11 · answered by shawty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋