Do single ladies really think that? In my personal opinion being married for 14 yrs now,,, marriage isn't all that great....If you want to know why I think that I can explain in an email....better that on this site with every judgemental person reading..
2006-09-05 04:43:24 · 12 answers · asked by lonely northern alberta guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Married life, as well as single life is what you make of it. Neither is cut out to be what they are often thought of to be.
I have tried both, prefer to be single. I don't care who judges this, it's what I prefer for myself that counts.
2006-09-05 04:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them have met losers. They go to bars, and they think that they will find mr. right there.
Truth be told, the majority of us don't go to bars at all. We only go when we are with a group of trusted friends and we don't go to meet other singles, but to enjoy a drink, some dancing and some food.
Marriage is over-rated. Yes. The issue here is people marry for reason's other than what reality seems to be. It takes alot of work to keep a relationship fresh and going and both people in the relationship have to be keen on that too. Many are not. Many get caught up in the routine and in the busy lifestyles of the poor and insecure that they do not have the time or energy or money to do so.
2006-09-05 11:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't appreciate nerds enough :-)
Really, if they went for the dude in the corner working on his laptop at Starbucks... they would probably not think "all the great guys are married or taken"...
Also, too many women judge by appearances... and I have rarely met a "nice guy" who was model good looking (if they think they're good looking, then they're generally asses).
What amuses me is that even my mother thinks that my boyfriend holding doors open for me, standing when I enter the room, etc... is "old fashioned"... when, to me, I think it's a sign that he is a great guy and respects me (ya, and it's old fashioned, but not in a BAD way-- he certainly knows that I am his equal).
That being said, there are an awful lot of jerks out there... and it's the agressive losers who give the impression that there are "no good guys left".
... it's all a matter of perspectives.
2006-09-05 12:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been told I am a great guy by many women and I am very much single. And even to go further I have been told by four women this year that I am every woman's dream or Gods gift to woman. I don't see that though because if I was Gods gift to women or every woman's dream I'd be taken myself. I know that I am a good man and that I treat women right so where are all the women that know how to treat a man right?
2006-09-05 12:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by bucksolutions1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single ladies know all the great guys aren't taken its just that they haven't found one for themselves yet. But they sometimes do base their preferences on guys that they see that are already taken
2006-09-05 11:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, apparently you aren't one of those great guys. Maybe you should be talking to wife rather than trying to get women to email you.
2006-09-05 11:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because they are basing what they want in a guy around the ones that they see that are taken. they aren't ready to commit to anything and just havent found the one that makes them happy like all the other guys make there girls happy.
and i am curious to know why you think its so bad(orangekrush85@cox.net)
2006-09-05 11:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they haven't found "the one" for them yet. I am curious to see why you think marriage is so bad. Feel free to email me.
2006-09-05 11:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they they dont think that. It's because they haven´t found MR Right yet
2006-09-05 11:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a HINT.. They're not ready to settle down yet...
I didn't say that when I was single :)
2006-09-05 11:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by AzNgUrL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋