My mother was drunk at our labor day bbq, and after I said goodbye to friends and family, my mother cornered me in the kitchen to hug me and give me a goodbye kiss. When I kissed her, she held my head and tried to put her tongue in my mouth. I ran out embarrased, and I have no idea what to do.
2006-09-05 04:42:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Whether you are a young man or a young woman that is abuse, drunk or not your parent, your mother is responsible for her actions.
I have been drunk before and in the presenceof my children, how ever I have NEVER done what your mother has, never attempted it , thought it, condoned it, nor done it.
Its abuse and you should draw the incedent to her attention. Dont be fooled by her saying she doesnt remember what she did, we dont really forgte that much when we drink, its a lie we tell ourselves to keep from dealingf with the issues at hand.
Regardless of the fact that you are an adult you are still her child and do not deserve to be treated in such a way.
It causes me to wonder what other things she has tried to do while drunk. I doubt this is the first time she has tried stuff with you. If you dont address the issue now, you will regret it and once you have children you will wonder if she gets drunk around them and tries things with them.
2006-09-05 04:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Al-anon for people who deal with other's alcoholism. Then, get her help. Also, seek counsel from a professional.
2006-09-05 04:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Leggz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it because the longer u let it fester the worse it is going to get she may feel as bad as u do about the whole situation please talk to her before u loose ur mum forever tell her u where hurt and she should really talk to someone about her drinking looks like she has a problem
2006-09-08 19:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by kell2117605 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to bring it up. I know that sucks but if you don't you will dwell on it forever. There is really no excuse for her actions but you can at least hear her out.
2006-09-05 05:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by autumn_hendrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You best discuss it with her (when she is sober). Mistakes like this can fester a lifetime unless you confront it.
2006-09-05 04:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by patweb01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you're a minor you can call child protection services. if you're an adult you can either talk to her about it when she's sober or ignore it and avoid being alone with her ever again.
my sympathies. that's gross.
2006-09-05 04:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Bevin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you went through is classified as sexual abuse, know that it was not your fault, and to protect yourself you need to get over your embarassment and confront your mom over it.
Also try- www.malesurvivors.org
2006-09-05 07:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude I Would soo tell her when she's not drunk. I would be careful around her when she is drunk tooo...
2006-09-05 05:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a mess your mother is in, what if it was not the drinking?
2006-09-05 04:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Montee P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has issues!
She was either very very very wasted and don't even remember it or she needs to see a shrink...
2006-09-05 04:49:32 · answer #10 · answered by fifine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋