should I just dump him and move on? He thinks this is not a step backwards. He still wants to be together, just likes living alone. What should i do
2006-09-05 04:40:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes living alone then you know that things will never go beyond this point with him and you. If your looking for a real relationship with some one who you can share a life with then you need to dump this boy and move on.
2006-09-05 04:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how is this not a step backwards I wonder??
I would be inclined to go with the others and leave. How long have you been living together? Has your relationship got worse since you moved in with each other?
Seems like he's not ready for the kind of relationship you want, but hanging around won't give you any guarantees that one day he will be and that it'll be you...
I'd say he wants out and move on.
2006-09-05 04:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Placebo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him WHY he wants to live alone and make sure its specific...If YOU think this is a step backward then you need to evaluate the whole situation...honestly i don't find his reason very convincing...and if he really does want to live alone how long does he want to have it that way? 2 years is a good enough time to be able to ask him straight up what his intentions are...if this is dead end and he just wants what he wants then i think you should just let go...move out, and don't worry, if its meant to be then it will happen...he will realize what he needs to do to make you happy and feel appreciated. So if this is the guy you wanted to marry then living together is going to be inevitable...so i think it is a step backward!
Hope it helps...and don't forget always know that you need the best and never settle for less than you want or can handle!
2006-09-05 04:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound right to me. After living together for two years, he now says he likes to live alone? Not cool. If he was telling you that he needs space and time to think over the relationship maybe I could understand where he is coming from, but to say he wants to stay together and for you to move out, I'm thinking he wants more of a bachelor pad. If you do stay together, I would be very cautious about the situation, find out what his intentions are. Good luck.
2006-09-05 04:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it his place? if it is aint nothing you can do but to move on. sounds pretty funny to me. maybe he's found someone else and he cant bring her around if you two live together. the next step might be he will break it off with you so i would dump him b4 he does it to you.
2006-09-05 05:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What name is on the lease? If it is in his name, then you need to move out, BUT I would not still be together with him. He is giving you that line just to get you out of his life. Be glad you weren't married!! Move on to someone better. Good luck to you.
2006-09-05 04:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to make a break without being the "bad guy". Just move out and do your own thing and don't look back from this loser. Thankfully you found out before you wasted too much time on him
2006-09-05 04:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is too much like being married, and he doesn't want to be married yet. If you care about him, live apart and wait to married, or you can move on. Just depends on how you feel about it.
2006-09-05 04:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after two years he decides that he wants to live alone? if i were you, i would find another place to live. maybe you should also start looking for a new boyfriend.
2006-09-05 04:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋