I have a boyfriend but at he same time my ex keeps on bugging me about going back out with him. I really like my current boyfriend, but i thik that i'm still in love with my old one... what should I do? Continue with my current one or dump him and go out with my ex?
2006-09-05 04:02:24 · 15 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As bad as this sounds you need to leave the boyfriend you have now and just go back to you ex. You have already answered your own question when you said that your still in love with your ex. How can you be in a relationship with this new guy if your still in love? You can't love two people at the same time and think it's still a fair game. Seeing that your still in love it's not right to stay and be with this new guy because your heart and love is still with your ex. Do you really think this new guy deserves that? You can't help who you love and how you feel but you can make this situation a better one before it turns heartbreaking and stressful for you. It's not fair to this new guy to think that things are really ok with you two when honestly they are not. If they were you wouldn't be asking this question nor would you still be in love with your ex. You have to put yourself in your new boyfriends place. Would you want him to keep you around but he knows that he's still in love with his ex? Maybe you would, maybe you wouldn't, but if your heart is elsewhere don't force things. Good luck!!!
2006-09-05 04:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go forward with your life. Your ex is your past and thats where he should stay. You only think you have feelings for him because he is trying to get back with you and he is probably saying all the right things that you have longed to hear him say. You say that you really like this guy you are dating now. Then why ruin a good thing that has the potential to be a great thing. Your ex sees that you are happy and he is probably single and doesn't want you with anyone else. Its really selfish of him to act this way. Just remember why you and this ex broke up in the 1st place. I hope all works out for you.
2006-09-05 11:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has alreaday failed with your ex, but you didn't give the reason why. That would be a big part of the deciding factor. I would wait and see where things go with your new. In the mean time your ex is inhibiting your new relationship, I would tell him to back off and give you space.
2006-09-05 11:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Faith M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason. Chances are he's played the field, hasn't found anyone better (like he thought he would), so he's back to you because there's noone else. Stick with the guy you're with, and tell the ex to hit the road.
2006-09-05 11:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it will all depend on why you broke up with your ex?
if it was for a good reason then don't go back there - it will probably lead to heart ache for you.
also depends on whether you can see yourself going far (in the sense of time) with you current bf?
2006-09-05 11:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by mul052 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is tough....er, depends on the reason you broke up with your ex in he first place.
your answer lies in this - is getting back with your ex worth leaving your current boyfriend?
if yes, leave your boyfriend. if no, try to stop all contact with your ex so they stop messing with your head.
hope that helps
2006-09-05 11:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your ex to get lost--- dont go backwards..........but if u really feel u still have feelings for him then leave ur current b/f cause its not fair that your dragging him along while you still wonder about your ex
2006-09-05 11:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump all of them. stay single, complete your schooling, and when your mind is clear to assess a man on traits condusive to a relationship, then search for a man.
2006-09-05 11:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll in the same boat as you right now too well i looked at it this way compare them together and pick one who made you feel like you dont have too be scared to be your self
2006-09-05 11:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by alyshia c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to think about, who are u gona b better with? who can b ur best friend? who is always gona b there for u? and if looks count whos better looking?!
2006-09-05 11:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by el_oso_candeloso 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋