together or now that you live together. My boyfriend and I have been together 7 years and we dont want to ruin a good thing, so we are afraid to live together. We each own homes 20 miles apart but after 7 years of driving back and forth I am getting wiped out so i am highly considering buying a house closer to him, rather than moving in together any thoughts one way or the other? we are 40 and 44 years old and no kids.
2006-09-05 03:52:40 · 3 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Emphisis on Quality
2006-09-05 07:57:09 · update #1
Emphisis on Quality
2006-09-05 07:57:57 · update #2
It is wonderful that you have the opportunity to decide whether to move in together or not, without the question as to whether the kids will be happy. The old saying goes " you really do not know a person until you have lived with them." It may seem a lifetime that you have know him, these past seven years, but there are little thing that may make the difference. Little things that may turn you off towards him, but I you truly love him, those little thing will be nothing. Keep your home and try living together. It may be what you are looking for. If living together is not working out, consider buying a home closer to him. Only time will tell. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 04:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move in together that's when you REALLY get to know how compatible you are with someone
I also find that my husband and I spend more time together doing little things...ex...watching TV eating dinner
But, if we never lived together I wouldn't know about his little "habits"
like leaving his socks all over the house. I would reccomend to anyone to live together before marriage so you can see if you are truly compatible. Because anyone can get along from a distance LOL
2006-09-05 04:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COARSE!!! once you dont stay mutually, you dont see eachother each and every of the time so that you're making time... yet once you stay mutually...ALL adult males... kinda be certain they have you ever... so why hassle with the making time for eachother or attempting to be romantic to you. After reading your state of affairs tho... i imagine its probable time. After 7 years of being mutually and not in any respect shifting in mutually.... looks like you 2 are petrified of shifting ahead. certain issues will change, yet some issues will change for the more effective too.
2016-12-06 10:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋