scenario is i have dancing lessons with a chick friend. weve been friends for a while. the dancin lessons have been fun and soon after weve 'hooked up'. after a couple of times im not sure what to listen to. my mind says stop, shes trouble, my gut says it doesnt matter what happens. my gut though may be influenced by my err...um...mr private part ;) what would you do if you were in my position?
2006-09-05 03:48:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey guys thanks for the tips! hmmm....its 50 / 50 maybe more details would make it more difinitive!
umm...were good friends, i dont have emotional involvment, so far - my other friend and her have 'kinda dated' but it didnt end well, but i aint my mate - my gut gives off a warning vibe if we progress pass making out. - were not dating, more a 'friends that can get intimate too' set up
2006-09-05 04:53:11 · update #1
I think you hit the nail right on the head about your gut's influence. What does your gut alone have to say? When it comes to matters of the heart your mind tries to protect you from hurt, and will always second guess you. This person cannot be that bad, you are friends with her, right? Try to figure out your thoughts and feelings and where they are coming from. And let that help you make your decision.
2006-09-05 03:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by BLANK 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I always say I have ESP to some extent, so I usually go with my gut feeling on things, but in your case, you know this girl is bad news and if you think there will be trouble, then your head is on straight, so take it's advice and stop. Don't let your "other head" influence you to do something you will regret later.
2006-09-05 03:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both....have fun and enjoy the moment...just keep your guard up...don't let it get too emotionally serious....who knows, she might surprise you and turn out the be the best relationship you've ever had...always hope for the best, but prepare for the worst in every situation. My husband was "trouble" in my mind, but I went with how I felt....that was almost 7 years ago and we are doing great. If you don't go for it, you might end up regretting it. And if you do and things go bad, just another lesson learned...always go with your gut...
2006-09-05 03:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to be analytical, so my head usually has a bigger voice than my gut. However, I find a lot of times there's no "perfect" or logical solution to things. In those cases I try to ignore my head and listen to my gut. It usually knows what's best for me anyway. Not necessarily whats easiest or what's most comfortable, but what's best.
2006-09-05 03:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine a persons' intestine feeling is continuously some thing to pay interest at. yet in the starting up before that do exactly somewhat of investigating what you experience before you actually bounce in. yet normaly a persons' intestine instinct is allways actual.
2016-12-06 10:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both depending on the situation
But, usually my head, and then after the fact I regret it and say "I should've went with my gut"
2006-09-05 03:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definately heed the warning if you get the feeling that she is trouble, it will save you alot of heartache in the future, of course we are always free to make whatever choices we like, however we cannot chose the consequences that come as a result of our choices.
2006-09-05 03:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of trouble is she?
id say, always use the head thats located higher than the other...theres a reason its way up there.
2006-09-05 03:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, but my head (the one above my waist) gets the final say.
2006-09-05 03:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to both and if it get too bad get out, but if the relationship is good then stay in it.
2006-09-05 03:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋