Also, suppose they were cheating with your parents, but you would be guaranteed $100,000 to deal with it, would you? Just remember you are totally in LOVE with the person.
2006-09-05 03:39:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
absloutely not. love is about honesty and trust. obviously this person isn't honest or trustworthy, it doesn't matter how much money is involved...the answeris still NO!!
2006-09-05 04:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by undercover_cosmotelogist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I believe that marriage is between 2 people and that doesn't leave room for anyone else. If you accept this then why get married at all. As for the money part, money should not define your decision one way or the other. Marriage is for 2 people who are in love and want to spend the rest of their lives with each other and should not be for any other reason or divorce will soon follow.
2006-09-05 10:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by bmidget2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just $100k? That's not enough, maybe for a couple of millions. j/k
Well, it depends how you define love and how you view marriage. If you think marriage is merely a union of two individuals' finances and sex, where true committment is not required, then go ahead & marry a cheater. You won't care whether they love you or not. Thus, it won't matter that other people are sharing your future spouse, both physically & emotionally, w/ you.
Personally, I would not able to do it. I see love & marriage as something sacred.
Also remember that once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-09-05 11:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating with my parents? thats a little too weird. if i was totally in love with the person, i would get over it really quick when i found that out. i think i might take the $100,000, but we would only be married on paper. we wouldn't have a real relationship anymore. and i would only stay with them until the money ran out. i wouldn't stay married to them forever.
2006-09-05 10:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not to say that this is the right thing to do, but maybe if I could get the money and then be able to leave the relationship at some point or be in a relationship with that person and not have to live with them then maybe so.
2006-09-05 10:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by shana t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about commitment and if you love a person and they can't be committed to you, then it's never going to work. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I wouldn't put my heart through that much misery for a lousy sum of money.
2006-09-05 10:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think I could do it, I have been married for 20 years now and trust is a big part of a relationship, and money dont buy happiness. True love is true happiness
2006-09-05 10:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by galion2_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - cheating takes the love out of love; to hell with everyone involved and their money!
2006-09-05 16:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by gingergirl4747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, thats not love its obession of infatuation, or you have low self estem that you are not worth more. True Love is about trust and honesty.
2006-09-05 10:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Breeze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one, maybe what u could do is cheat on her too if she is doing it to you and just take the money
2006-09-05 10:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by jannet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋