Im with my boyfriend for 4 years im 21 and he is 22 we broke up for 6months and just recently got back together he told me that while it was over he got talking to this older women she was 32 and he gave her his number when he was drunk he said he didnt even have a kiss with her he just gave his number without thinking and now this women is sending him dirty pictures to his mobile my boyfriend is a very honest person but i cant help feeling insecure that he would be tempted by her cos she is an older women, i told him how i feel and he said i have nothing to worry about that he loves me and wants nobody else and that he wouldnt have told me about her if he had anything to hide. am i just being silly??
2006-09-05 03:34:11 · 13 answers · asked by hugskissesfun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off hun - if you think your boyfriend DIDNT do anything, then you're a silly girl - men dont just innocently give out their number to women - trust me on that one.
Secondly if hes getting unwanted pictures - he could just ring his network provider and get her number blocked. Its that easy. Unless of course he LIKES geting these pictures.
2006-09-05 03:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Its me! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being silly! Your boyfriend is only being honest, but on the other hand he has given you some concerning thoughts about this older woman. She sounds as though she is a sex fene and isn't shy about anything.Your boyfriend needs to tell her, he is back with you and not interested in her what so ever. He needs to put his foot down towards her and stop all types of communication when it comes to her. He could make out a police report on harassment, if he's serious about this ending for good. The ball is his court, he did give her his number. It's up to him to clear it up if he wants a relationship with you. Good Luck! Cocoa
2006-09-05 03:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! U are not. U are fated to be together again with him. U should help him to overcome the obstacle. To get rid of the obstacle, tell him to change his mobile numbers. That will keep her away from contacting your bf. Make him feel safe with U. Give him the strength, support and care. Then U will find that both of U are getting more intimate than b4.
2006-09-05 03:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by atbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 18:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he really hasn't done anything with this woman, and wishes to be with you, he needs to get his phone number changed. If the calls and photos from this woman continue with the new number , you'll have reason to believe that something is going on for real.
2006-09-05 03:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be careful sister,, your bf is only 22 he's in his prime & young guys have a tendency to adventure especially with older ladies, i know because i was young myself, and did the same thing, because her husband or not wasn't paying any attention 2 her....
2006-09-05 03:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know whether or not he is trustworthy......and if so, then don't worry about this other woman......but I have to ask myself, if he doesn't want anything to do with this woman and there was nothing going on there but a phone # exchange, I find it hard to believe that she would just send nude pictures of herself to him. And the big question is this.......WHY DOESN'T HE CHANGE HIS CELL # IF HE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER? I would have to wonder about him myself.
2006-09-05 03:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being silly. Imagine this woman is actually sending hints that she wants your man. Why don't he tell her to stop contacting her. Worry!
2006-09-05 03:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre not being silly. if she is still doing it then more that just giving his number to this woman happened. bc he would have told he to stop by now. somehtings going on and i would confront him directly NOW. this has to end.
why did yall break up?
2006-09-05 03:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 21 and you've been with someone for 4 years??
You're settling down way too young.
2006-09-05 03:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Placebo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋