I ran into my ex's friend one night and we talked for a while,I was still bitter about my ex cheating and he listened and understood,He drove me home thatnight and I invite dhim to stay,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,I asked him to put his arm around em,he did till I slept.He was a complete gentleman and did not make any moves.I saw him once since then and he came to me and said "your killing me".It has been 6 months since that night.I compare all guys to him.I dont know if he is worth waiting for in hopes he will come around one day.I was told by a mutual friend that he likes me but is freaked about my ex.I sent him a text message a few months ago and he never replied.I had to delete his number so I would not drunk dial him.I will see him again one day,for he is friends with my mutual friends.Should I be moving on?Or maybe one day things might work between us two?
2006-09-05 03:15:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he hasn't made his move by now, he probably won't. move on, you'll be happier.
2006-09-05 03:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably move on, if I were you. If a guy is interested in a woman, he'll show it. He won't let 6 months go by without contacting that woman. I'm sure he was a complete gentleman, but you may have freaked him out that night as well. He just doesn't sound like he's all that into you. Find someone who is. Good luck to you.
2006-09-05 10:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! You need to move on, It is clear that he:s not interested in you. The time he slep with you and comfored you was it, that night was the begining of the end, If he was interested in you, He would be there every day. Some guys want date their best friends exes. Move on with your iife, You will find the wright one.
2006-09-05 10:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on absolutely, don't waste one more moment thinking of him. This is not a healthy relationship. Thank God you didn't have sex with him that night. Wise up, girly. Your frend's ex is not the way to go. There are plenty of fish in the sea so move on and make it fast. Forget this guy.
2006-09-05 10:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess anythings possible. But in my rule book..."once a cheater always a cheater." If you don't want your heart broken again...steer clear from this fellow...he's disappointed you once and probably will do it again....you need to find a man..who is man enough to not cheat on you. He obviously didn't respect you enough in the begining when he cheated on you and what makes you think he'll respect you now?
2006-09-05 10:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend need to talk seriously. Don't allow him to slip away he sounds marvelous.
Don't bring up things from the past. Let sleeping dogs lie. But explain to him that you won't appreciate him cheating on you again.
2006-09-05 10:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it...you are wanting to be with this guy to have a connection with the ex. Don't use him for that. Someone could get hurt. Most of all it could be you AGAIN.
2006-09-05 10:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Tell him how you feel and that you want to pursue something. Take it slow. But dont let your lousy cheating X ruin things for you two.
2006-09-05 10:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since it has been so long, i think that you should move on! if he is good friends with your ex, don't expect him to start something with you because friends don't go out with thier friends ex's
2006-09-05 10:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i said for the third time that you shouldnt care what your ex says if you want to go out with thart guy you can.
2006-09-05 10:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. LIke u said, u will c him again. If the sparks fly then so be it. If not...
2006-09-05 10:24:21 · answer #11 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋