I already posted my questions and story about my situation but i read some answers that they still know or they want more fact of the story. Here's the story and complete details. I already bought a house and i already bought my car and there is no mortgate or renting to be paid every month . In other words we are not renting any house or renting any apartment. I had two kids with her , one was stayed on my Father's in law and one was in mine. Before, she worked same as me but i talked with her to quit working bec. still no money left on her savings bank account. Besides, she also using my savings and spent and spent even she had worked. One time i spoke with her in the phone to make a business and she did it but i don't know where is it now. It's all gone. Nothing left. What types of wife is this? Do you think that she sleeps in the other man that i didn't know?I hope not.
2006-09-05 02:50:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just get rid of this relationship if you feel it is not worth continuing.
2006-09-05 02:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her you both should go through some marital counciling, if you don't love her anymore being seperated would probably be the best thing, for both of you. It sounds like you do love her, and maybe at some point she loved you back, now her true love is money, to some people it is an addiction like drugs. She may be sleeping around, but honestly I don't think she is, unless she is doing it just for the extra spending money. As far as the kids are concerned they are better off with two parents, but when one is so irresponsible with finances, they should be with the one that is responsible, in other words: if you and her decide to get her help for her problem, the kids should be with both of you, if you two do decide to split you should take care of the kids, it is best for them, when there are children in the picture then you have to consider their feelings first.
2006-09-05 03:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are not fortune tellers so we can't know Why don't you hire a private dectective to follow her. I do know that some people have an addiction to spending money. The dectective will be able to answer your questions.
2006-09-05 03:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋