iv been with my b/f 6 months, he says he doesnt love me
2006-09-05 02:49:12 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at least he was honest. i got "i love you but we dont have enough in common"
just be happy he told the truth and try to move on. I know it's hard but it's all you can do.
2006-09-05 02:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello In-Too-Deep you are obviously very screwed up about this as this is the fifth question you have asked about the subject today. It really does not matter what everybody says on here as we all have different opinions honey, and by no means can give you a magical answer to this. The torment you are going through has to be decided by you and you alone. I think you know what you have to do, just follow your own gut feeling. Take care
2006-09-05 02:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only been six months, give it a little time......unless he has told you that he will NEVER love you.....have you told him that you love him? if so, what is it about him that you love? does he make you laugh? does he respect you? are you free to do as you wish without the 3rd degree afterward? does he make you feel special and secure in the relationship? if not to any of these questions, do you think that further down the line, he will be able to be all those things to you? if he still says he doesn't love you after more time has passed.....then maybe you should pass on him......
2006-09-05 02:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. If he says he just isn't there yet, that's one thing. But if he doesn't see it happening, then move on to someone who will. I wasted time on a guy for a whole year who in the end admitted that he knew early on that we wouldn't end up together more permanently.
2006-09-05 02:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Iknowsomestuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your BF love you and then say he didnt love you anymore? If its the latter then you shouldnt stay with him. If you love him then you should leave him and let him move on. If he just hasnt started to love you yet ask him if he thinks the relationship is going anywhere (have the awkward discussion, it has to be done)
2006-09-05 02:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by atuniagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its not really funy, but yea the same thing happened to me.
we were seeing each other constantly and talking on the phone when we werent together, and it was like we were in love so i let myself start loving him thinking it was mutual, and i let him know one day, and he said he doesnt love me and didnt know if he can love anyone again. this was at like 6 mths of us being together all the time! it really hurt my feelings, but i cant make anyone love me, so.....i started seeing other people and he didnt like it and started getting jealous, finally he said ok enough i do care about you-it took me thinking im gonna lose you to another dude to really realize it.....and we are still going strong at 9 mths now, and he has text messaged me that he loves me back, but still wont say it....so who knows why they are like this! but im gonna stay with him until i feel like he doesnt really love me. i think they just have a problem admitting it.
2006-09-05 02:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. Why would either one of you stay together then? One of you should be grownup enough to say goodbye. If you want to be friends that's okay but to call him your BF when he doesn't love you is not exactly correct now is it? Move on and find someone that loves you and cares about you.
2006-09-05 02:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship, both of you should be mutual.. i cant stay in a relationship if my bf doesnt appreciate me.. well, the reason why i commit myself to him is because he can make me feel good, well in your case, he has stopped loving you, get over it, dont hold on something that is gone.. you know already the truth, good that he admitted it, you know what to do.. find happiness, real happiness...
2006-09-05 02:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by `red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you feelings for him, do you want to keep trying or move on to other maybe better catches. if you are not happy now you probaly will not be in the future. you have to decide, no one else can, check out your own heart to find the correct answer for you, over all you must be happy too. life is too short, so you might as well enjoy the ride.
2006-09-05 02:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by nocateman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bye bye baby....its been nice to have known you...bye bye as s whole...its been good you came...bye bye sucker, you have no idea.......bye bye dumbass....you have no class!
Oh by the way...I have AIDS.
That's what you tell the jerk..........and then laugh your heart out!!
Make the sucker sweat it out.
Send him a card....self addressed
Joe Smoo
any number
any town
any zip
do the same for the return adress......just do not put a stamp on it. the postal service will make him pay the postage and then he gets the envelope.
2006-09-05 02:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋