my girlfriend well my ex girlfriend said that she needed to "take a break" to focus on herself. i feel like this is selfish on her part because i've worked so hard to keep us together (2yrs), only to get screwed at the end. has this ever happed to you? guys
2006-09-05 02:44:57 · 15 answers · asked by BOOM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a chick who wanted to take a break too, I didn't call her or nothing left her alone to concentrate on self then 2 weeks later I seen her and she was with another guy! Women NEVER know what they want and even when they get it still complain!
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2006-09-05 02:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 2 years now she want to find herself??
When people say they want a break, it's just another way of telling you "it's over" or she may have some other guy on the side that she's likes and she taking a break from you to see if it works out with him and if not she knows that you're there when she's done with the him...
2006-09-05 10:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it means---and i am female--it means u both need to take a break from each other and go out and sow some wow or wild oats.
And if u end up back together afterwards, then love overruled
the sex of some wild oats.
2006-09-05 09:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens all the time to men who don't know/knew what women want, but changed after having the girl by becoming to emotionally attached to her. It means that you are no longer the man that you were(when you first met). You no longer make her feel attraction for you. the problem is with you, and the only way to get her back is to visit this site below. (that is i you still like her)
2006-09-05 09:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by arnoldtwl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's happened to me. and it hurt like hell. i took the break for what it was, a break up. After that happened I cut him out of my life completely. I couldnt be with someone who didnt put the same effort into our relationship as I did.
2006-09-05 09:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not be a guy but i can help you..it means "I ain't that into you anymore but i need to think about what made me like you in the first places... so leave and let me think."
I use this phares all the time coz it works.
2006-09-05 09:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needs her space and you should respect that. Just give it to her and trust me ..she will get no attention from you and she'll come running back to you. you don't have to work hard to keep you two together. it's both your jobs..what is she doing? running away from you? sounds like it. leave her alone for a while..maybe she feels stifled by you. don't strangle her dude. no one likes to be smothered. trust me...it will work..just don't call her ..wait for her to call you and if she does not ..then sounds like she wanted out. but if she loves you, she will call you sometime. I'd give it a week...
2006-09-05 09:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's shopping around for a better boyfriend but she doesn't want to totally blow you off in case she can't find the magic one. Don't be a patsy! Dump her and move on!
2006-09-05 09:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by I'manalienfrog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes this has happened, actually at the 2 yr mark as well, were back together and everythin is good, i just took it as we needed time a part(alone time). yeah i was mad but it was better than losing her forever
2006-09-05 09:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by baseball_saenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break would mean a polite lets split up, perahps she snto the one fr you, move on....
2006-09-05 09:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋