This will be kinda long but worth the read. I liked this guy: my pastor's son, gorgeous, talented musician and dancer, church sweetheart who doesn't date bcause it's against church policy. We kinda became freinds. We wouldn't talk at church so it seemed to everyone we hardly knew eachother, yet we would text eachother almost every night. Very friendly about it. I fell for him. Twice he came to me and addressed me as Queen Esther (If my name were Esther). We became closer and closer. Then, all of a sudden, he became so cold towards me. Stopped calling, stopped texting. If I would ask a question he would answer it as to-the-point as humanly possible. What Happenned?
2006-09-05 02:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by Simply Sasa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think this is a conversation that you need to have with him.. try to reach him by text or corner him at church - but have him tell you what went happen. Its the least he can do. But sometimes relationships end and we have to accept that.
Good luck
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 02:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from him.Sounds like he is brain washed by his religious family. Just because he is a pastor's son does not make him an better than us. if it's so hard to get to him then why bother? it will only end up a nightmare. Maybe he realised that he was being tempted by the so called "devil" that these religious fanatics believe in. just drop him. he's not worth it. unless he thinks on his own without his parents influence.
2006-09-05 09:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be talking to someone else, sorry to be so blunt, but usually when someone stops talking to you cold turkey, that is what has happened. The best thing to do is to find someone who you are completely compatible with to avoid this from happening in the future. Keep in mind that there is someone out there for everyone, maybe he just wasn't it.
2006-09-05 09:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe somebody found out or maybe he feels the same but dosent want betray the church. or maybe his mother/farther have seen the txt msg`s and has disallowd him to be getting involed wot ever it may be there is an resonable explanation for it and if he`s to blind to see he had a good thing going for him thats his falt. dnt worrie bout it there`s plenty more fish in the sea .
2006-09-05 09:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by missknowitall_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably realized what he was doing was a bit hypocritical. even though no one else could know what you guys do, he probably thought that God could and that it was against church policies as well. the only way you will ge the Real and True answer is if you address him the same as you did us, and just ask him......good luck sweetheart.
2006-09-05 09:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He realized that it wasn't going to work out and decided to end it now before it turned to something more in the future. It was better that way for the both of you!
2006-09-05 09:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he really likes you and dont know what to do because he cant date anyone right now and intsead he put the quits to it now gave it time girl and things might pick back up dont do anything to push him away futher ok things will be ok i promise you that.
2006-09-05 09:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by billie0059 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he heard a bad rumor about you.
2006-09-05 09:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he fell for you and got scared.
2006-09-05 09:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to be asking him hun, not us.
2006-09-05 09:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋