If an old man shares same emotions with a young lady who is 21 years old and if they both think they came across in wrong generations,is it still okay to get marry for both of them??
2006-09-05 01:53:30 · 17 answers · asked by derin15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy has no children or wife... He did not get marry with someone before..:)))) /this is the detail for the ones who considers whether he got married or not..:))))
2006-09-05 02:12:41 · update #1
if they love eachother,everything is posible. love doesn't have an age.u can love at 15 years old and u can love at 85 years old
2006-09-05 02:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by andreea 155 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Midlife crisis x 100! Wow, why is he marrying a girl younger than his daughter? Is your friend's dad rich? If so, this girl is nothing but a gold-digger. Honestly, that is messed up. It seems hard, but your friend should ask her father why he is marrying someone so young? Do they truly love each other? She should also come out and tell her father how she feels about this union. Its the only way, she can't be silent about this. I'd also look into the girl, run a background check on her just to make sure that she isn't some kind of crook.
2016-03-26 22:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is funny like that. One thing that is unnatural will be what if you have children? If you had them right away by the time the child was 20 you'd be 41 but he would be 66. More than likely he would pass on years before you declined in health leaving you alone. In the end I believe you should follow your heart but think about what you want in a husband and does he fit the mold.
2006-09-05 02:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the most common thing in the world but it's not unusual either. If neither of you have a hang up about the age difference and feel you can make a go of it, then more power to ya. GL
2006-09-05 02:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society usually looks at men and women to be about the same age. But I don't see that age matters. I have seen some married people with that kind of age spread and they are happy after many years of marriage.
2006-09-05 01:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by RB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ita s popular notionn that for some reasons if a 40s man never fathered child ren in his 20 or 30s too leave a legacy behind bye getiing the 21 year old girl, knocked up, and leaving at least one child behind some reasons are there careeers job presuress, maybe travelinng and never really or werent hasppy in a first mariage or never thought about a mariage, and the notion of spriong a kid at that late in life just hits themm like a ton of bricks!!
2006-09-05 01:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it ain't for anybody to say they are grown. if no one likes it then oh well they don't have to marry you or him so i would tell them to bug off. but i think it is wrong because she is 21 and he is 46 over 20 years difference and she could probably find some one the same age as her and with the same fellings. but i'm not to say.
2006-09-05 02:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH IT IS NORMAL NOW IN DAYS! BUT THE SAYING IS YOU CAN;T HELP WHO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH BUT IT IS A LIL ODD THERE IS A 25YR DIFFERENCE SO IT IS ALL UP TO THE YOUNG LADY IS SHE REL LY LOVES THE GUY AND IF SHE THINKS SHE CAN BE LOYAL AND SHE KNOWS HE IS THE ONE THAN YEAH IT IS HER DECISION SHE IS THE ONE GETTING MARRIED AND IT IS A BIG STEP AND THERE IS ALOT TO DEAL WITH LIKE IS THE FAMILYY WILL ACCEPT OR IF HE HAS KIDS OR FAMIL WILL THEY ACCEPT JUST THINK ABOUT IT LONG AND HARD AND SEE IF THAT'S WHAT SHE WANTS AND IF IT IS I SAY GO FOR IT AND GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES
2006-09-05 02:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by hellokitty_19_2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not unusual in my book.
nothing wrong with it -- people are entitled to marry who they wish.
and a 46 year old is NOT AN OLD MAN.
2006-09-05 01:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by karkondrite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is strange,not common relationship.But old men like young ladies.And sometimes,young women like old men.
2006-09-05 02:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋