There is this guy I cant stop thinking about, I cannot be with him because he is friends with my ex. There are so many obsticles to enter into his life. But I still think about him all the time.
2006-09-05 01:46:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let your stupid ex get in the way of you and your happiness. c'mon man. Just tel him how you feel. You are clearly madly inlove with him. just go for it. You deserve it!
2006-09-05 01:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how he feels about you? What makes you keep thinking about him?
I think your circle of friends is not wide enough for you to be deciding, at this juncture, whom you should pick.
Go on and make more friends, as many as you can. Live your life first without thinking of committing to anyone first. This will enable you to gain more experience in assessing others and at the same time give those who are interested in you to assess you. It will also widen your choice, giving you an advantage! Then you will not be thinking of you ex's friends, making your life miserable and stressful.
Go on and live your life! Life is wonderful, don't turn it into a miserable one. You are in control of your own life!
2006-09-05 08:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From about the time I was 27 until I was about 40, my best friend's girlfriend was in love with me. Maintaining my intelligence and my morals, I refused her advances, not wanting to endanger my friendship with my life-long friend. Eventually, because he became an alcoholic, she decided to leave him and she actually proposed to me. I had to turn her down because nothing is more valuable than a life-long friendship. Because I rejected her, she left him and moved to New Hampshire. I spoke with her a couple times on his behalf, and we were both glad to hear each others' voice, but she had married a man on the rebound, so I considered her off limits and lost contact with her. My friend died a few years back and I tried to find her to let her know, but to no avail. I still think of her as a good friend, and hope one day to hear from her to find out how her life has gone. She gave me my Cherokee name: Space Eagle
Love, Hope, Peace, and Christ be with you,
Cal-el & Swissy
2006-09-05 09:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keyword-- EX.....well how long has it been since ur ex? if its long enough go do what u gotta do with ur crush..y would u let ur ex regulate who u date?? yea some people say thats a no no but people need to be realistic--too damn bad if ur ex likes ur friend-get over it! ..tell him how u feel and it might not be as hard as you think to enter his life
2006-09-05 08:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opportunities are just that....opportunities. If you want something/someone, then go and make your move. Don't sit there wondering whether I should or I shouldn't and have it slip by and then kick yourself in your keister for not taking the chance when you had it!
2006-09-05 11:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't let friends bone an ex.
2006-09-05 08:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you be with him ime sure if your ex and yourself ended ok then it will be no problem if you didnt then no dont go there itl all end in heartache
2006-09-05 08:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be discouraged just because he's your ex's friend!
2006-09-05 08:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if he is your ex's friend???go for it more challenging huh!!!
2006-09-05 08:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by cutiebhaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur EX..not some1 whose ur current bf...
u cant be wid any 1 whose friends wid ur x...
dats impractical...ur relationship is over wid dat guy..who u be wid & wat u do is no concern for him....rather thinkin bout wat ur ex gonna think...it be better dat u take a step for da guy u like...
if u loose him..ur x aint gonna come 2 help u...
live ur life for ur happiness...& not some1 else...dat wat they might think...
love never knocks ur door twice
2006-09-05 09:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋