A few months ago, I got out of a bad relationship, and was very excited to finally find a good guy and real love. I've been through a few guys who always seem to break up with me. I finally found who I thought was the perfect one, I know that we both really care about each other, but because of family problems on his side it had to end, What am I doing wrong? HELP!
2006-09-05 00:34:56 · 18 answers · asked by BettyJones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to thank everyone for their answers, you really have made me feel better. I know these are all things I should be doing, I do have a good group of friends and should stop looking for love and let it find me.
It's just hard when a relationship doesn't work out, especially when it feels so right...
2006-09-05 01:02:44 · update #1
BTW: I haven't slept with any of these new guys, I always try to wait for a good couple of weeks...
2006-09-05 02:32:56 · update #2
nothing is wrong! that is just the way it is... i know how you feel... every time i got into a realtionship i would say to my self, ok i found this guy i like.. when are we going to mbreak up. and i would look for the signs. after i got tired of that i said to my self that i was not going to life life that was anymore cause it just got me down so i decided to have fun with it. who cares if we break up, i was going to look for the positive things about the situation. and long behold, i found my husband! try a different state of mind, you might be open to things that you may have never thought before
2006-09-05 00:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you least expect it you will find the person you are meant to be with. I was in some short relationships before I met my current boyfriend of 4 years. We are both from the same city and have many of the same friends in common, but we met in another province when we both went to party with friends for the weekend. The hardest part is meeting new people, so go out and try some new things. Good luck!!
2006-09-05 00:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just need to Catch your fun and stay cool. Dont rush and dont look desperate as we are not going to help u when u fall again; but actually, sister, u sound as if u are very attractive or fairly attractive but Unromantic and may be u give it in Easily for sex; so they dont know what stuff u are made off to make them stay the more; well let me tell u one truth; if u are all what was mentioned above then i will not stay; so pls stay cool but if u meet someone u like again do the following:
1. Be fairly Romantic (show that u care)
2. Dont give in to sex easily
3. when u are on a date do more of listening then say little
4. make sure u are consistent on your Past and dont sAY MUCH ABOUT YOUR FORMER
5 Kiss someone u love well but make sure when he is getting under the 1st to 10 meetings dont give in
6. Smile Decently and Give the First hug on a date.
7. make Sure u dont rush at food when u are on a date;
8. Be a good observer in all he says.
9. Always hold him to his words
10. Tend to Know his plans for the Future (not to include u but Generally)
i promise u will not be alone again; u might even have to much to handle for now; Good Luck
2006-09-05 01:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is tough at times. I often have felt like this. It feels at times like there is nobody in the world who cares for you how you want. It will happen for you in the end. I suggest joining sports groups if you like them as they always have the right kind of guy. ones who are into fitness and everything that goes with it. Avoid out in the pub with their mates types is my advise , they always are tempted by other women and make crap partners. Give this man time and if he really likes you he shouldnt let you go so easily.
2006-09-05 00:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Abigail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life
2006-09-05 00:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this book by author Iyanla Vanzant, "In the Meantime". The subtitle reads: Finding yourself and the Love You Want.
Its a wonderful book that will have you saying "ah ha!" with the turn of each page. Best wishes. ^^
2006-09-05 00:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stop lookin so desperately!! come on... do u HAVE to have a guy to live? you couldn't be that sad...
do something with your own life... make somethin of yourself.. follow your dreams that dont involve being hung on to a male for every emotional need!!!! dont u have friends???
what you;re doing wrong is clinging, and expecting too much... let things happen to you, rather than hunting for them... in the mean time, concentrate on yourself, not others.. you'll be just fine
2006-09-05 00:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
Don't try and rush these things - trust me it doesn't work!
You just have to take things as they come and when the right guy comes along you'll know!!
2006-09-05 00:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by mul052 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a few months? Enjoy yourself, spend time with your friends, display an interest in others and you'll meet someone when you least expect it.
2006-09-05 00:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty more fish in the sea and you never know that the one man that you are suppose to be with is just around the corner so hang in there.
2006-09-05 00:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋