Suicidal because of high-school?

Question

Ouch... this pains mentally. I am going to the first grade of my high-school and I don't have any friends.. Just a couple of them. I don't know, I tried to make some contacts but it just doesn't work. They laugh at stupid jokes and so on. I just can't stand it. Everyone is so... sleifsh, all about fun. I hate to go there but I have to. What should I do? Please, help me cause I think I am suicidal.

Answer 1

if your still on first grade theres a lot to discover about high school but once u get used to it you will be fine and start making friends
dont worry and good luck
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Answer 2

You are taking positive action just by writing about your problem here. This is a very good sign that you want to get through this. Believe me, you can survive all this rotten stuff that is going on, and later you'll be glad for what it taught you.

You've mentioned that you only have a couple of friends. That's better than nothing, right? Talk to them ,spend time with them, send emails to eachother and do anything to hang on to their friendship. That's the sort of thing you can do for yourself.

But you also need to take a little more action and contact people who deal with this sort of thing every day. Call a hotline. If you are in the USA or GB or one of many other 'Western' countries there are many of them, and some even have email links so you can make 'silent' contact to begin with. But no matter where you are, call a hotline or helpline. All the people there have training and they know what to do to help you -- and they won't judge you or laugh at you. They will listen and give you good, useful advice and help you through this. Many counsellors are people who have been through the same stuff and they really want to help you.

You've made a good start and showed your courage by writing in. Now go the next mile and get some much-needed support, okay? You can do it!

Peace.

L **

Answer 3

SUICIDE PREVENTION

Suicide & Crisis Hotline [phone] Help for Troubled Teens

National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention



SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO

Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors

Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens

Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens

VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500

Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline

Answer 4

First death is never an answer and it dont really solve anything. Its a long term solution to a short term problem. Try appraching kids that share the same interest with you. Talk to them about things that interest you and them both. You will make friends if you give it a try. Don't try to fit in with groups of friends that you have nothnig in common with just to try to be popluar. That never turns out good kid.
Lots of people are worried and nervous the first day of a new school. Once you get there you will see its not as bad as you think its going to be.

Answer 5

Just remember. High school ends. It will be over. Look at it as a necessary evil to a better life. Why care about everyone else and what they think?

Answer 6

hang in there. high school is awkward and effed up for a lot of people. try to pick up electives where you might meet more ecclectic kids...art, drama, etc. also check out picking up a guitar class or some outside activity--there's no reason that hs has to be your entire social focus. also, im betting you have some old friends you haven't been calling--give it a shot. even if they don't go to your school, sometimes its good to have someone familiar to talk to and hang out with.

Answer 7

It's okay. If they are stupid, you don't wanna be friends with them. See how it goes. I am sure you'll meet someone who is smart enough to be good company.

Answer 8

All things work out in the end stick at it focus you will be fine.

Answer 9

contact your local mental health At once and talk to a pro. they can help you. and they will be able to help you