im not pushing religion. she has talked to me alot about jesus[not being pushy] and she has helped alot bringing me to a good point in my life
with letting jesus in. my question is she wasnt feeling good last week and the guy upstairs was a little loud etc etc. well i thought i was being nice i helped cut some grass. well she came down very hard on me because she didnt feel good and the guy upstairs was loud and i was cutting her grass and she can cut cut her own grass even when shes sick. it went on and on so i walked away. she did apologize to me for making me mad. do you think i was just the sounding board?????? she does care for me. she thinks im very nice.
2006-09-05 00:10:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Seems to me her christian humility had gotten over come by pride I mean you were doing her a favor by mowing her dayum lawn. If she cant appreciate that, turn the other cheek so to speak and kepp it moving.
2006-09-05 00:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Again, talking with her would be a lot better than talking to air.
Instead of trying to put everything into a Christian framework, try looking at it from a human point of view. If she isn't feeling well, she may be using you as a sounding board for her problems. It might be that there are too many people around her trying to help, too. She might feel smothered. Sometimes, even one person trying to help can feel smothering.
The best thing to do is be there when she needs help, but let her work through her own problems for the most part. Part of this involves asking before helping and accepting "no" as an answer if she doesn't want it. If you feel she needs your input, try inviting her over for dinner and listening. If she wishes to talk about it, she will. Or perhaps she won't. Just spending time away from the guy upstairs might be enough support for her to work it out more later.
2006-09-05 00:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by nondescript 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 10:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by burkett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has spiritual problems and needs forgiveness. Everybody has a bad day, and sometimes things get out of hand. Forgive her and continue to be kind and loving to her. the fact that she talks to you about Jesus is very positive. She thinks enough of you to share our Lord with you. If she come to you and apologizes, accept the apology and forgive her, and then ask her if there was anything that you did to her that you need to ask her for her forgiveness. This is the correct way to proceed. Never stop doing good for other people---it will get you many places in this world that would otherwise be shut off. Don't be pushy, just helpful. Jesus loves you.
2006-09-05 00:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my sister loves me very much
my husband loves me very much
my mother loves me very much
guess who they shout at when angry lol
sometimes we do let off steam to those who are closest to us .. and although that is not excusable .. in a strange way it is lovely that she feels comfortable enough to do that
maybe she is crying out for some help and sympathy .. all be it the wrong way to do it
visit with her ? bring her something nice ? and ask if there is anything you can do for her
you will feel better ... she will feel better
but do let her know that it hurts when she does use you as a sounding board xx
2006-09-05 00:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah dude.... I think she's mad because you assumed she needed help. She sounds to me like she feels she is in total control of her life so don't go and intrude into her organized life...(even if she looks like she needed help). Try asking her next time...before you intrude... and respect her answer and opinion.
I think you may need to apologize to her... this may open up some doors for you.
Just my opinion....Good luck.
2006-09-05 00:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by KeAhi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like she just used you to vent out her frustrations. She probably didn't mean any of it, especially if she later apologised.
2006-09-05 00:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Funny Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just having a bad time.
2006-09-05 00:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us has our bad days. Forget about it and work on your relationship with her.
2006-09-05 00:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by tolquit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋