my girlfriend cheated me... i was with her in all her bad times now when am not doing well in my career she wants to leave me... never ever thought she would say something like this i was with her all the time... now she want to have a secured life with a powerfull man who is very well settled(she said)!!!! she is a doctor and am an engineer... she is still in touch so before she leaves me i want her to realise..
2006-09-04 23:47:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear friend, treasure the lesson she has taught you. You should be thankful to her having shown the reality of life. You are wiser now. Pick another girl friend.
When you consider her your gf, there should not be anything like "teaching a lesson". Or else you would be at par with her. Remain refined and forget about teaching a lesson.
2006-09-08 23:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and say her thank you for leaving you and give her best wishes for her life. Be in touch of her so that she should know that u are not hurt even show her that u r happy as u know the real truth abt her long before taking any further steps. I am telling u she will realise and feel guilty for her deed.
Try to settle back in your life and find a gal who is from one of her friend and much beautiful and good than her.
Believe me gals feel very jealous to see her ex-boyfriends with some other gals even though they have left them.
This is the best way to get her mind back on earth.
2006-09-05 07:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, I know you don't want to hear this, but from what you're saying, she doesn't deserve you. You sat with her through all the hard times, and now she's leaving you because you're human and having a hard time right now. what a jerk. You deserve so much more than her. But if you want to teach her a lesson, I'd say leave her first. don't call her, ignore her calls, break off the relationship, etc. Hopefully it would show her that she can't just toss you like that, after everything you've done for her, and that you're a real human being with feelings. Good luck
2006-09-05 06:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are agreeing that you are not doing well in your career...then what is wrong with your so called GF opting for a person well settled in life???
Instead of TEACHING her a lesson ..what you should do is..first of all you get settled in your life.
You were with her in all her bad times and would have helped her OK.. for which you will be rewarded by the God, if she is not showing that grace with you then why are you thinking of her and wasting your valuable time in thinking to teach her a lesson???
God would have prepared rather good girl for you as a life partner..so concentrate on your future life and remove the thought of TEACHING her lessons...if you go behind her to teach her lesson then GOD will have to teach you a lesson....
2006-09-05 07:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by NUPAKRY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's Strange. My Hubby is an engineer. And I'm in veterinarian school. What guys fail to understand is that women want to marry men that will take care of them. Meaning we don't want to worry about if the bills are getting paid or losing our house. I'm proud of hubby. I don't want him to stop working on his career. And I think your girl should of been there to encourage you to keep going. Don't give up. Women want men that work and can help them out financially.
2006-09-05 07:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to move on. you don't have to have revenge. it will cause you more pain than peace of mind. you can't let someone force to stay with you. if she has fallen out of love with you and chooses someone who she thinks she needs, then just move along my friend. give her the freedom she wants. you've done a lot for her and that would be enough sacrifice. you cannot teach her a lesson. let her choice give her a lesson for it's her life.
your life would be better off without her. trust me. someday you'll meet a girl who deserve your love and attention more than your girlfriend. she loves stability more than your love. it hurts but it's the reality.
2006-09-05 07:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people want what they cannot have
so make it simple for her
say ...well ok baby take care
those words are powerful
just say them and get to stepping like you
do not care.
This way she will be the one
who is stunned and she will always
hear those words in her mind
with a bit of confusion
she will never believe you said them to her
2006-09-05 06:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Queen A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, once a cheater always a cheater, hate and resentment only serve to keep you from being able to move on.
Spend your energy finding someone who deserves you.
2006-09-05 07:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her , avoid her , if u r sure that she gonna leave u for money(as u said) , so that will be a good lesson to her if u ignore her before she leave u , ignore her as she feel that u r almost insulting her , it will be a good lesson in my view , wat a man can give a woman , (after all v cant punish women) lol
2006-09-08 18:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love her more. She will come back to you, once the other person loses interest in her. Be ready to accept her. That is true Love.
2006-09-07 04:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by Satarani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋