I have asked loads of questions. When should I ask my boyfriend to move in, questions about sex life etc. Everytime people tell me to get rid of him, he doesn't appreciate me etc etc. My boyfriend is great, the perfect bloke, he tells me everyday how much he loves me and im his perfect girl. I couldnt do better.
2006-09-04 23:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dunno. maybe there are people who're more pessimistc than I am! haha I don't get it either, sorry. When I see a question about something you mentioned (moving in together, sex life, etc), that's what it is, a question. It's not a question about this huge problem with a person's significant other/partner/spouse/whatever, it's simply a question. sorry, I couldn't be more help. like I said, I'm as lost as you are haha
2006-09-04 23:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sometimes people come along to answers when they are in a negative mood about their partner and they can vent without knowing it in the language they use.
it's probably more useful to wait until you're in an even frame of mind then write down the good and bad points...if there's more bad than good then something really is amiss. if you can't move into an even frame of mind in order to even do that exercise then something is fundamentally wrong.
I don't think all advice is always to quit the relationship, in most cases i would say that talking would be the first port of call in any situation of conflict. It can also be as well to play devils advocate in cases where questions give only a one sided slant. However in cases where somebody is clearly being emotionally or otherwise abused, the only advice can be- leave at once.
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2006-09-04 23:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People here can only judge on what you tell them.
Perhaps the way you put things makes him sound like a bad person? Some people will always be negative and say 'dump him' because they are not happy with their own relationships etc.
Best thing to do is re-read your post before you submit it to ensure that you have put your situation across correctly and that no misunderstandings could happen then you should get the answers pointed in the direction you want.
2006-09-04 23:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just need to rephrase your questions? But having said that there are a few people in here tha go away on a rant not actually asking the question you've asked - or repeating the information you've given - and that IS frustrating - so really I can appreciate where you're coming from at times
2006-09-04 23:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you ask your questions. The additional information that you give, aside from your questions. All relevant matters pertaining to what you are asking should be put out in the open so you can get sincere and decent answers. Otherwise you will end up having an insensible question with insensible answers. Hang in there...ask wisely........
2006-09-04 23:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the type of question or the way you ask it that mkes people think in that direction.
2006-09-04 23:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words tho! its alrite him telling these things , but what is he actually doing to prove these words ? (nothing ) by the sounds of your qeustions ! your the one who is confused! and you are asking these qeustions for reassurance, which is'nt a good sign
2006-09-04 23:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋