Can someone love yet at the same time do not feel proud to show her to everyone ?
2006-09-04 23:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by happie_julie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Basic question is whether you like her and are willing to make a lasting relationship despite her being fat and ugly. If you are very sure of this go ahead. Fat and ugly does not mean a thing since it is all in your eyes. Beauty is in any case transient and does not last long. It withers like a flower plucked from a tree. Shop her to every one and proudly at that. Do not be influenced ever by what others say, especially the beauty worshipers.
2006-09-04 23:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can love a person but at the same time feel ashame of him/her. BUT, it should not pose as a barrier for you to introduce her to your family. furthermore, if you really love her, you should work on the issue of you being ashame of her (especially if you see a future with her) I guess she should also work on her weight issues.. it is not healthy to be over-weight and i don't believe that anyone in this world is born ugly.. with a little help from the experts, she'll look presentable. whether all these works out or not, you should love her for who she is and not for who she will be.
2006-09-05 08:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when a guy really love a girl, he don't mind how she look. If he can accept a girl as your g/f, he should be proud to bring her to his gathering and not hide her. Why should he fear other say that his g/f is ugly/fat coz afterall she is his g/f and not theirs. As a guy he must be confident in himself and not fear about gossip coz everybody have different standard in selecting a g/f
2006-09-05 22:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never love is blind and when you fall in love you will only be proud to show it around than think of how ugly and fat she is.
But you have to be in love with her that is important.????
2006-09-05 06:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the case, it means you don't love her.. You should accept her no matter how she looks like and be proud! If you only love her because of her physicalities.. I think its not love.. You should learn how to love, accept and be proud..
2006-09-05 06:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose and love her for whatever she looks like... and gonna be proud to introduce her to anyone...
2006-09-05 06:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by lexel & lexel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me, I would never have a fat or ugly girlfriend.
2006-09-05 06:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats your girlfriend why are you calling her names? Beauty comes from within.. If you really loved her you wouldnt care what others think..
2006-09-05 06:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, his friends might make fun of him. Sorry- not trying to be mean but guys are hateful creatures sometimes.
2006-09-05 06:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems true love is not there!
ashame should never be used here about the gf. if it is, there's no love here!
no point in discussing such here is there?
2006-09-05 06:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋