my gf whom i was gonna finish with 3 weeks ago cos she was not playing part in our relationship is now being really nice to me, should i just get rid of her now as i feel she only wants her hands on the money?????????? help
2006-09-04 23:08:24 · 22 answers · asked by ho2asme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two words......... MONEY GRABBER!!! Ditch her cos you were going to anyway.
Get financial advice and invest the money sensibly, and don't tell ANYBODY else about it. That way, when you meet a girl, you know she isn't just in it for the money.
2006-09-04 23:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Emma W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were going to finish your relationship 3 weeks ago and intended on doing so why have you not already done it, you cant use the excuse that she is being kind to you because i believe once you have decided that a relationship is over. it is weather she is nice or not, only you can decide what it is you really want people like us can give you an opinion but will it really count, forget about the money side of things sort out your life because that comes before money then once you feel happy in your self and you can look forward to the future and feel confident knowing where you will be in ten or so years on good luck all the best x
2006-09-04 23:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by private 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, just for the record 50K is not that much. You have 2 choces kepp a ittle and put the rest of it away to grow interest, or do somethig procutive like put it towards a new business or new home, but to spend it on some girl anyway would be stupid so string her along when you get the money but don't spend any on her and see where you go from there But OTOH if you are already suspecting her, you could be deluded thinking this money is all that or she could be a total loser who thinks working a guy with 50K will spend it on her.
2006-09-04 23:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight out that you're not going to spend a penny of your inheritence as you're going to put it away in a savings account. If she stays with you after saying that chances are shes with you for you, if she IS after the money - she'll leg it once she knows you aint going spending it. Then when you're driving down the road in a flash new car - wave and smile brightly at her and see her turn a lovely colour green!!!!
2006-09-04 23:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody tells the sun when it's time to go in, u are an adult i presume, u should know wat to do, use ur common sense and pls if i were u i would use the money wisely, u see u guys always look down on immigrants or minorities but a minority will be thinking of a useful way of spending that money in order to get returns, but i bet u are thinking of travelling round the world and getting so drunk you could shag anyone. eeeeee?
2006-09-04 23:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is ALL she cares about, then yes, because its only the money she wants, go get someone you feel comfortable with.
2006-09-04 23:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes get rid! You said yourself things were not working out..
2006-09-04 23:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by sandra+3... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u suspect that is the case then go with ur gut instint u dont need the public to make this choice for u
2006-09-04 23:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her she is only after your inheritance. Have fun spending it.(on your own)
2006-09-04 23:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by wordykat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youv got 50 g comin and yer on here in the house lord o mercy .....see the world ...youl have plenty make believe freinds headin in yer direction beware
2006-09-04 23:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋