which i really hate and everytime we have a drink she keeps talking about him i told her to stop it and we had a fight but i still like her what should i do she's a little bit annoying sometimes but i still do like her and the problem is that she's always in town and i'm a door man i she comes to my pop every night...
2006-09-04 22:59:27 · 19 answers · asked by Moh Qudah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're still friends, you'll have to accept the fact that she is going to date other people.
On the flip side of that coin, if she really intends on being your friend, she should understand that you're uncomfortable with that situation and maybe not talk about him so much. If I were in your shoes, I would just tell her that I really enjoy spending time with her, but it is still too early to be talking about others that you may be dating. Ask how she would feel if you always talked about a girl you were interested in. Good luck, it's a tough situation you're in.
2006-09-04 23:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her you must tell her soon before she's with him.
If she's talking about another guy, it could mean one of 2 things- she's trying to see if you'll get jealous or that she wants you off her back so stop trying. Riddles and indirectess will only confuse things- be straight tell her how you feel and ask her if you can work things out- if the answer's no then don't waste your time- you could be wasting the same energy on someone else who'll be worth your time.
2006-09-04 23:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by antagonist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her and move on. If you don't like her talking about other men, then find someone who doesn't. What you are really looking for is someone who loves you and trusts you, and someone who you can love and trust just as much. When you find that someone, it won't matter who she talks about because your level of trust will be high enough that you won't be concerned about her past relationships. If the someone you find continues to talk about someone they really like in the present, then perhaps it's time to move on, because although men talk more about cheating, women are more likely to actually do it according to research. If you can't communicate openly and honestly with a person and you continue to pursue them, it is more likely that you are in love with the idea of love and not really in love with the person. If you aren't communicating with her well, here are some song lyrics that may help you to understand:
Artist Kenny Loggins
Album Unknown
Song Now And Then
She sings to me now and then
Gentle refrains of summer mornings
The first rays of sunlight
And dew-dropped roses
Winds rolling through falling leaves
Whistling in the sycamores
These are her songs of love
She needs to be reassured
of all of the hope you hold for her
And when the lady loves you
Don't ever let it go
Take your world into your arms
And let your feelings show
And she, never will leave
Always these memories will stay with me
And I'll think of her now and then
She, she needs to be reassured
of all of the hope you hold for her
And brother, when the lady loves you
Don't ever let it go
Take your world into your arms
And let your feelings show
And she, never will leave
Always these memories will stay with me
And I'll think of her now and then
Love, Hope, Peace, and Christ Be With You,
Cal-el & Swissy
2006-09-04 23:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her to kick of also dont buy her drinks let her spend her own money. Or act as though you have found some one and just go on prasing that Gal and see what happens you will be surprised why you didnt do it earlier
2006-09-04 23:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is doing it to make you jealous.
You have told her how you feel, yet she has choose to ignore your feelings and still go on about another guy.
She still has feelings for you, otherwise she would not be trying to get at your heart strings, or be poping up at your work.
You know what they say: TWO CAN PLAY THAT GAME!
2006-09-04 23:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem but the other way around. My ex-boyfriend and I are friends but I think he still loves me, but I don't love him. I haven't rubber his nose in other boyfriend. I guess for you, you either have to find another girlfriend or tell your ex you don't want to hear about the new boyfriend
2006-09-04 23:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by MJane21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite her down again and meet him. Then bar him and that will really annoy her and she wont come down again. If you still have feelings for her it will be hard for a while. Hopefully youll meet somebody else and you can talk to her about your new gf
2006-09-04 23:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by alismudge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Dr. Dipshit, why don't you get a clue? You are a goddam doormat, no wonder she dumped you. Quit being a p*ssy and tell her go to hell. Grow some balls and stop being a stupid ****. You are letting her walk on you like a foot bridge. Were you born retarded or something?
2006-09-04 23:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Swallow your pride. Change the subject to say another girl you like see if that stops her and then try to put some distance between yous if she gos to the pub ignore her say I'm working!!!!!!
2006-09-04 23:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by sandra+3... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept that she wants to date other people, you should move on quickly. If thats to hard, tell her that you dont feel comfortable talking about that, if she gets angry, act calm, and leave her to cool off.
2006-09-04 23:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋