can someone help me with the words to split up with my boyfriend? im just hurting so much, i love him to pieces and have a great time when im with him however he openly admits he doesnt love me. and why stay in a relationship when the feeling are not returned??
any suggestions on how i should word it to him??
2006-09-04 22:18:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a typical girl question. with typical girl answers..
If he doesnt love you, and you dont like it.
Dont call him, dont return any calls, dont answer calls from him, dont go round, dont let him in... I know its what he would like, not all this wishy washy emotional crap, which your only doing for YOUR own benefit...... Its like funerals, why go.. the person is dead... your going for yourself..
If you do pick up the phone and its him. HANG UP
he will get the idea in afew days...
2006-09-04 22:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by yeah well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i"m just hurting so much, i love him to pieces and have a great time when im with him however he openly admits he doesnt love me. and why stay in a relationship when the feeling are not returned??"
Saying that part you just mentioned would be something you could mention.
2006-09-04 22:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if he has already openly admitted to you that he doesn't love why worry on how to word it. Your answer is already there. Just tell him that there is no point in being in a relationship that has no meaning. I assume you are still young so don't waste your time on someone that doesn't love you back.
Just be honest with him babe. Tell him exactly how you feel and you are not ok with him not loving you and tell him you feel the best solution is to move forward with out him.
Good Luck
2006-09-04 22:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by pink_lee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
2006-09-04 22:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest with him, tell him how you feel and that you don't want to be with someone who does not feel the same in return. Tell him that it is not fair on either of you, you should both be with people you love. Tell him you need to move on with life, you need time to get over him so you can.
2006-09-04 22:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my heart goes out to you...
be honest with him. Tell him that it hurts to much to be with him when you feel and give so much but you get nothing back. In the long run, you will start to feel like you aren't worth his love, but you are worth it and so much more! You need to just get it over with, stop seeing him and move on. He migh soon realise what he's lost, but then it will be too late!
good luck xxx
2006-09-04 22:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your looking for a relationship with someone who loves you and that you putting all your time and energy into someone who doesn't love you back is ridiculous....if he doesn't understand then he's an idiot anyway.
Good Luck.
P.S My friend was with a Guy 5 years, adored him, had a flat together, a dog etc.
He was Muslim, she's white catholic, although he told her he cannot marry her etc She always hoped and believed that he would give up his family and spend his life with her.....he didn't, he is now married to an Asian girl whom he says he loves.#My friend is struggling to get over him and is devastated that she wasted5 years on him.
2006-09-04 22:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's the prob? you've just said he like doesn't love you, so what are you waiting for your worth more than that. just be straight without being nasty. your right to get out so do it. may be like sorry but we both know that this is going nowhere so we should go our own ways. Take care of yourself. or something like that i am better wording something when i am face to face. do it, it might hurt but you be better off in the long term. Take care.
2006-09-04 22:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Susie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no need of spliting as it is comman thing with us(boys),here is an suggestion just aviod him for few days then see what happends.It works in every case.he is also adopting the same tech. toward you too.
i think u must try it out first and do other next.
tell me what happens my email id is -sam1_jethwa@yahoo.com
regards
sandy.
2006-09-04 22:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boyfriend? You said it yourself, he doesn't love you. That makes you a booty call, hun. He said it all, you don't have to say a thing, just don't answer the phone and don't open the door (or anything else to him, if you know what I mean). He will move on to another woman to fulfill his one need. He probably already has.
2006-09-04 22:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋