if you were with someone you loved but they didnt love you back would you stay with them??
2006-09-04 22:09:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ask me I'm in the same situation, have been for over 5 years now, I feel I should go as it hurts knowing that you are unloved. Head over heart the answer should be leave.
2006-09-04 22:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
At least you are wise enough to recognize and acknowledge the situation you are in, and this is why you have so much pain.
The pain of a broken heart will fade with time. You are fortunate enough to have experienced love (even though the person does not share your feelings). Embrace it, and don't be afraid to make the "leap of faith" again with another worthy soul down the line.
I am sure you will break far more hearts down the line than the pain you will feel from relationships gone bad. Don't lower your standards, be true to yourself. It was just not your turn... when you meet the right person you will know... It will be magical.
For now... watch a lot of comedies, splurge on lots of Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream, go out with friends, and live each day one day at a time.
Again, you are a wise person. Your intuition will guide you down the right path.
2006-09-04 22:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by ccarter313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the strongest emotion a person can experience. This is the reason why when we get hurt by somebody we love it hurts more than any physical pain. Unfortunately if the other person does not give your love back, it will not survive. Love can only be a two way situation. The strongest of love will not last if it is not feed by anothers love.
2006-09-04 22:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by London Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I wouldn't. I'd get the hell outta there, because I want to be with someone who returns my feelings. Love hurts because you put yourself out there, you're vulnerable, and if the person doesn't love you back or hurts you, it's hurts much worse than it would if you didn't love them
2006-09-04 22:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if you ignore them they may start to appreciate you and realise what they are missing. Don't be taken advantage of as this will only break your heart further. There are plenty more fish in the sea and time does heal.
2006-09-04 22:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mohawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts mostly because we give our all to someone and when we don't receive it back we just start making up excuses that we know we don't need to, when all we really need to do is be true to ourselves.
2006-09-04 22:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey babes, you gotta move on aight? i've been in your position before. i loved this guy so much but well i was the only one in love here. it took me loads of guts to get him off amidst crying and wailing but yeah i finally found the supernatural guts to get him off.
i realised he is not worth my time and my sorrow. i first of all deleted his number from my phone and any other form of contact of him. so even when i felt like calling or speaking to him, i couldnt know-how.
lemme tell you, it did magic. just give him space and he will start running after you. can you believe now this guy calls me every blessed day and sometimes i tell him i'm not in the position to talk to him? just give him space! oh no, he is even calling now.
unfortunately, i dont love him no more, i'm now so crazily in love with this fine guy and yeah thats it!
move on gal! i know its not easy but yeah be strong.
good luck!
2006-09-04 22:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by lipsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becos loving involves so much of feelings and emotions.........
and it hurts alot when its broken and cuts ...
but feels good when filled in.... keep loving even when it hurts.
its better to be in love and get hurts than to have never felt it at all.
2006-09-04 22:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is son of a ***** - not good.
But we have many romantic people who believe love is place in haven.
2006-09-04 22:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts because it is love
2006-09-04 22:14:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋