After searching for the woman that I fell in love with 14 years ago, I found her, neither of us have remarried, or in any relationship. We are seeing each other Wednesday, Sept. 6, for the first time in almost 10 years. When I fell in love with her, we were both in disasterous marriages, both divorced and have had relationships. She says that talking on the phone is like we have not missed a beat, and it is like when we first met. My heart is pounding out of my chest just writing this. Where should we go in mid week? Not much to do except dinner, maybe a movie, or thing could get warmed up pretty quick, we had a hot thing going that was not just sex. Flowers? I am excited and scared at the same time. Please, some serious help, not petty stuff. Hurry, I have plans to make.
2006-09-04 22:06:18 · 3 answers · asked by thebushman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Carry her to a romantic restaurant.. then to some place where you can drink a very good glass of red wine so you can see each other in the eyes and tell you all happens during this time and discover again your both feelings for the other... I don't agree with a movie due to Watching a movie means no talking and I believe both of u need to tell and explain what's going on..
Don't be scared man.. Love doesn't kill anyone.. Try to live the moment as intensely as you can... trying to transmit her all your warmth that you have in yr heart..
For flowers... well it's a good idea but a little bit old.. try with a romantic cd where there are music of your time.. there will a song that makes you think to her.. isn't it???
Good luck... it will be fine...
2006-09-04 22:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from the movies... you haven't seen each other in 10 years, find a nice cafe or bistro where you can people watch and talk over dinner. Maybe don't go to the fanciest place in town, find someplace where you'll both be comfortable and enjoy the food as well as the company. I don't think flowers are inappropriate in your case, but a HUGE bouquet would send the wrong message, try something small and thoughtful, it sounds like you don't have to 'wow' her.... being thoughtful will earn more points than a huge 'look what I bought' floral arrangement.
Most importantly don't go into the evening with any huge expectations... remember to just be yourself and have fun without any pressure. The primary thing is that you're going to see an old friend!! Good luck :-)
2006-09-04 22:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Porterhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through the park straight to your bedroom - don't waist time - find out if the love test the same. Later dinner is OK and test better.
2006-09-04 22:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋