I have recently been on holiday, having only slept with people who ive have known for some time. i went away, not planning to sleep with just anyone because thats just not me....... however whilst on holiday me and my friends found a club which we made our local, after a few nights of going there we became friends with the doormen. i grew close to one in particular, i ended up sleeping with him for the lasting duration of the holiday and have no regrets, do you think that i should?
2006-09-04 21:51:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I don't
2006-09-04 21:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were both consenting, so I see no problem. Just don't make a habit of it, you may find you get a reputation for it. I did, and consequently found I couldn't get a g/f for ages after, coz no-one trusted me. Can't say I blame them tho! Plus as others have said, there are always the dangers of std's. But back to the point, it sounds like you had a great holiday, leave it there....
2006-09-04 21:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by singa_dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide whether you should regret it - but there's nothing wrong with having a 1-night stand, as long as both parties aren't being misled (ie: if you promised the doorman your undyling love just to get him into bed, or vice-versa).
Although relationships lead to deep, meaningful sex, 1-night stands can be passionate, lusty things - both are great!
2006-09-04 21:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by bertrandborg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck No - - - one should be able to enjoy a night or two of passion without recrimination & guilt. This modern Evangelical habit of denouncing people for having sex is horrid. Good that you had a fun time no time for tears only a happy memory. Peace.
2006-09-04 21:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a great holiday romance enjoys the memories
2006-09-04 21:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make what anyone think about how you choose to carry yourself or allow yourself to be used...that's your own business...and just by you asking the question should tell you something.
You say that you don't have any regrets but you do, or you wouldn't have a need to express it.
You're going to think about this everyday for the rest of your life....
NO REGRETS.
2006-09-04 22:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Vera W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that it over whats the difference the regret is going to make you werent cheating any one coz to my understanding you werent into a relationship prior to this episode so just chill and relax and have fun!
2006-09-04 21:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to be used to sleeping around ,with people u know.How do u define that?And then if u sleep with a stranger then what is your dilemma?It's the urge thats important.Once you take in does it ask the grip? who r u?I am sure u get it.Don't regret your answer to your sex urge. That is important to fill it.
2006-09-04 22:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by shashank n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you slept with the doorman of a night club you better get checked out for venereal diseases.
2006-09-04 21:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by uselessadvice 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as its a mutual understanding that is a short term thing and nobody is lead on thinking a relationship is going to rise from it
2006-09-04 21:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ryt d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you protected yourself Honey! And i don't mean the piull but condoms as if you didn't ... You might live to regret it.
2006-09-04 21:53:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋