I have not seen or talked to her since the day I got a phone call saying she wanted to break up with me. She blamed me for cheating on her and said "someone" told her this. Though I have never broken her trust this came up in the break up call. She also said that her parents had to like me for some reason. We had been going out for nearly 2 years, they liked me before, but at the end they tended to go a diff way. I tried to fix it for her sake becouse I loved her so much but ya... parents will be parents. Even when you really didnt do anything wrong... So im stuck at this position to try and talk to her, its been 4 months. Do you think this has a chance to work out being just friends becouse I really dont want to get back together with her, with all the crap she put me through.
2006-09-04 21:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by john_30013001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't listen to yogesh, obviously he never tried.
You've had some space. I would try and talk to her, say you want to try being friends. But I guess if she doesnt want to be friends with you, then you're better off just getting on with your life and not worrying about her anymore. It's been done before though, being friends after a break up. Sometimes it might take a lot of space though.
2006-09-04 21:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasnt contacted you in 4 months after a break up Im pretty sure right now she doesnt want to be your friend. Even if you didnt do anything and you love her its not about that. She already made the choice to end it. So move on with your life. Find a new gf and find other friends. If she wants to be friends shell find a way to contact you.
2006-09-04 21:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't talked to her for 4 months, now you want to get back and be friends? why have you waited this long? if you don't love her any more, let her go. in a perfect world, we all want to be friends with ex. but in reality, a lot of times don't happen cuz it needs both parties' consensus. doesn't look like she wants you any more.
2006-09-04 21:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that the best remedy for you is to get over her first before you try for any kind of friendship. Right now you need to redefined your goals and concentrate on the positive. Take the time to reach within yourself and identify your weakness and strong points and build on the new awareness of yourself. Strengthen your character and redevelop your dignity. Love yourself again and to thine own self be true.
Use that experience as a building block and use it to give you class and fortitude.
2006-09-04 21:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. The chance of being friends is slim - particularly if she has "moved on" with her life to pursue other interests. It's hard, but after four months there is no reason for you to throw good time/effort after bad. Cut the losses and get on with enjoying your new-found freedom.
2006-09-04 21:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by trev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first question to u wud b that do u still love her . if its yes then make her somehow come to a place where u can meet nd hav a chat. Then ask her to xplain wat happened to u . Bcoz in most of such cases the parents r the culprit ( not all) to brainwash the gals . So ask her frankly ...get ur answer nd then decide coz a two years relationship is not worth of breaking in two months ..All The Best
2006-09-04 21:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after break up as a Gf or BF there is no chance for being friends again.
2006-09-04 21:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey u can still be frn ..........and if u wnt to be her bf again den u mst apologize o tell her ur feelings if she loves u truly she wil understand o i means dat it was all a time pass for her u wre a time pass for her !!! best of luck
2006-09-04 21:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by kamya aggarwal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your'll couldn't work it out when you'll were going out wat makes u think being friends is gonna b any better? and besides it will b kinda hard after everything the two of u being threw .
2006-09-04 21:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋