I have a friend which I am really close with and everyday, every min, every seconds she talks bout her crush!! Gawd I don't even have a chance to talk bout my crush till I finally gave up on him cuz I have no one to talk to about! Whenever I talked about mine, she will cut in and talked bout hers! I really can't take it anymore! It's just toooooooooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!! Cuz she doesnt even listens to mine and she always talks bout him like he's everything!!!!!
2006-09-04 21:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes I have talked to her bout this guy I liked but when I came to a part she will cut in and talked bout her crush!!
2006-09-04 21:41:42 · update #1
Maybe its time to find a friend that is willing to listen to you instead of oneself.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 21:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend are YOU?
I agree she is probably a bit self-centered, but she has a need to share these feelings. Be a good listener, interact with her, and share in her joy and hopes.
She will probably run out of breath at some point. Then you can share. Be generous with your listening.
It's one of the cheapest gifts we can give another person.
2006-09-05 04:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her it's better than ignoring it and driving you're self crazy I had that problem with my sister but we talked. She said she didn't know she was doing it. Maybe u'r friend hasn't notice just tell her if she is you best friend she'll understand. Stay in there
2006-09-05 05:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by crazy*in*love*w/hubby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
such a selfish person can never be a good friend cos friendship is all about giving and selflessness. at least you guys should be able to have a dialogue not a monologue. get this 'ME ME ME ' ***** out of ur life and get a nice friend
2006-09-05 04:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by agonychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,then let her know what you feel,tell her how irritating and frustrated it is that she doesn't give you a listening ear after you have given her the same.....true friends listen and be there for each other always and if she dpesn't mend her ways then stop sharing things with her and make new friends!!
2006-09-05 05:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just very eager to talk about this person when u all get on the phone or start talking u talk first or let her know u like someone also
2006-09-05 04:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by t t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u tell her that u feel in such way i think she loves her bf very much and he is always in her mind u must tell her that u dont like that she doesnt listen what u want to tell her
2006-09-05 05:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand up for yourself and in a gentle manner try to explain her your point of view.
2006-09-05 04:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she interrupts you again just talk even louder make sure she knows your talking
2006-09-05 04:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a good friend hold on 2 her
2006-09-05 04:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋