talk to your lawer
2006-09-04 21:16:25
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answer #1
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answered by avocadoadam 4
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I've thought plenty about signing off rights to my kids, their dads constantly calling cps on me along with bitching nonstop about paying child support, it's horrible and the courts can't do anything about it!, it's ruined my career because of the constant harassment, yet the courts do nothing to help, it's my problem even though they both left me and laughed in my face because I was struggling!!! I don't have money to take them to court for the constant harassment and that's the only way to make it go away!!!! Does anyone know if that is good cause to sign off on your kids, I love them, but I have nothing to function with no money and the state gives me so much **** all the time about gettin aid. I still hav full custody of my sons, I would jus sign over custody but, I can't sit by and watch my sons brainwashed into being sexist psychopaths!!!! Please help, and yes I've tried legal aid for years, they are too busy, been there done that a million times over!!
2014-07-26 04:43:46
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answered by Maradams 2
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Well, if your ex is looking to get married, than the new spouse could probably seek to adopt the child in question. If that is the case, seek out a lawyer, talk to the couple and make an agreement. Otherwise, if you wish to continue to be the legal parent, you'll have to continue paying child support.
2006-09-05 04:07:29
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answered by t_raudenbush 2
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You can sign off rights regardless of what the mother thinks. My daughter's father signed away his rights at my request, but he's the one the filed the papers in the courts. I was not notified until AFTER he had already filed them and they were signed by a judge.
Talk to a lawyer and let him/her know what you want to do and it will be taken care of.
I think signing away your rights is a little harsh, but if you are unable to see your daughter and you are still supporting her I can see where you would be frustrated and wouldn't want to deal with it anymore. And anyone that post something negitive about you does not understand what you are going through. I don't know how you feel about your daughter, but it's hard to build a relationship or bond with a child that you never see. What are you supposed to do? Pay for this child until she is 18 and still never see her? I'm sure there is another man playing daddy to her. It's very doubtful that she will have anything to do with you when she is older.
2006-09-04 21:28:38
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answered by Lynda C 3
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i'm sorry honey yet there's no way out of this. she would be in a position to't placed you on the beginning certificates except you're there to sign it. If she desires to get toddler help, she would be in a position to could desire to pass to the courtroom and report, which then on account that there's no father on the certificates, the courtroom will order a DNA attempt for you. while the attempt comes back with you using fact the daddy, they'll order the toddler help and then they could additionally artwork out custody/visitation for you. you will not have the skill to get out of it via signing your rights away. to confirm that somebody to sign their rights away, there must be a parent prepared to undertake. A choose can not intentionally bastardize a toddler. If this have been accessible, all the folk desirous to get out of toddler help (mom's secure) might try this. So honestly, in case you do not sign the beginning certificates then you certainly won't have any rights to offer up yet while she makes a decision to persue this, then you certainly would be tied to her constantly with this toddler.
2016-10-01 08:09:06
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answered by ? 3
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Just saying sometimes that's the only option left. I haven't signed away my right but my husband is being forced to by his new baby mom which btw he cheated on me with n her daughter is a week older than my son n he and I both attempted to make things right with the **** but she still won't let him have anything to do with her even after the DNA test so as far as I'm concerned raise her alone ***** cause I know Damn well she can't handle it like I did for the first 3 years some bitches r just trifling n if they ain't getting the results or dick they want they leave no choice so all u bitches on here just remember hoes get what they want. Don't b so quick to judge a book by its cover or be an *** cause a man doesn't want to explain **** to the world cause I'm sorry I don't think it's right to pay for a child who u aren't allowed to c unless u did something to lose those rights not just cause ur baby mom's a ****** whore who had to get 3 guys tested!
2014-02-06 23:02:31
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answered by alan g 1
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I am absolutely appalled!
I am so shocked and disgusted at you. You have a child, for crying out loud! He/she is your flesh and blood, why would you want to relinquish your rights?
Even if you were to give up you 'parental responsibilities' you are still the child's father and would still have to pay child support. If your name is on the birth certificate and you are genetically the father of the child, you have to take responsibility for his/her upbringing.
If you ex really wants the child support from you, I'm sure there are ways of getting around the fact that you have no rights.
You were big enough to make a baby, you have to be big enough to support your child, until he/she is old enough to support himself/herself.
You should be ashamed of yourself. What sort of re-actions did you expect to get? Perhaps if you were to elaborate on your question, give a bit more detail, it might have helped.
2006-09-04 21:42:47
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answered by FionaFirestone 1
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best thing to do is talk to a lawyer, they are the one that decides if you still pay, and all that, cause they half to look at the mothers income and see if she makes enough to cut out child support, i wouldn't personally give up my rights, or wouldn't tell anyone i think that's what they need to do, cause what are you going to do when they get old enough and come knocking at your door, and ask you why did you not want them............ what are you going to do then? are you going to tell them you didn't want to pay child support, cause they might need you, and your not going to be around, if you don't go and see them, and don't want nothing to do with them, then go for it, but beware, they will hurt you back......... talk to a lawyer.........
2006-09-05 02:13:39
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answered by miss.d 3
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You can sign off your parentla rights...but you are still financially responsible for that child until its 18...or the mother gets married, and the new man adopts the child...Stop being selfish, and pay up to your responsibilities...you made your bed...now you have to lie in it
2006-09-05 06:10:23
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answered by mommy_2_liam 7
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Can't be done unless the mother also signs off rights. Visitation is unrelated to child support.
2006-09-04 21:21:07
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answered by nursesr4evr 7
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Well, your what I like to call a dead beat dad. Without any explanation of why, all I can say is that I hope..One day you are a lonely old man. As far as signing over your rights. Its not as easy as it use to be..THE MOTHER had to o.k. it in most states these days......You are part of whats wrong with this world these days..Everyone wants the fun of making the baby, just not the responsibility of raising it....
2006-09-04 23:36:02
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answered by Anonymous
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