2006-09-04 21:10:07 · 24 answers · asked by nowand4everevil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
why do people asumme malice is involed
2006-09-04 21:14:12 · update #1
I am 16 and my brother is 15. We have seen each other nude (or in my case also topless) so many times I can't count. We share a bathroom and have often walked in on each other, and I swim topless so often walk thru the house in just my bikini bottom. It's no big deal.
We don't seriously check each other out or anything bc that would be gross. And there's no touching or sexual stuff
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2006-09-06 19:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I've read the other answers, and they seem to be different than mine, so I'm probably going to get some flak for saying this. I grew up in a house where nudity was a natural thing and was no big deal, as long as you weren't seriously checking the other one out, then that's gross. My mother ran around au natural, us kids would go from the bathroom to the bedroom draped in a towel after our bath, which we would promptly lose as soon as we would get to our own room, we would just get dressed there. But my best friend grew up in a house where if you had to get up and go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, you had better wear your jams, socks, slippers and a robe! I thought that was a little much, I could see the jams OR a robe, but even covering your feet? I thought they took it a little far. It actually kind of freaked me out wondering why they were taught to do all this. Even today, I really feel that she takes things a little far. Once her boys hit one year old, she made her husband bathe them because she was a girl and shouldn't be giving boys a bath! But then I found out that one of the relatives her mom was raised with was a perv, so I guess that explains things, but I still can't help but think these poor kids are going to have some awful insecurities, inhibitions, or whatever the right word is,due to the way they always have to stay covered. What in the world are they going to do once they have to get changed in the locker room or take a shower for gym class? And she's just as shocked by me, my two older kids don't go around naked, but this is the first summer my four year old has learned not to take his clothes off in the pool just because they get wet. I guess it just depends on how comfortable your parents are with it and how they raise you to be.
2006-09-05 05:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by ANGELa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope it's not okay, but anytime you live with someone, you will end up seeing each other naked eventually. Avert your eyes as quickly as possible, and quickly back out of the room. It's like walking in on your parents having sex.
2006-09-05 04:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by jadeaaustin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having raise both male and female children it is natural for small children to see each other naked at some point. or to see daddy or mommy naked. I think once children reach a certain age say three it should not be allowed.
2006-09-05 04:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the children are old enough to notice the differences between boys and girls then they are old enough to practice modesty and discretion. As to the second part of the question, some people are just dirty-minded and disgusting!
2006-09-05 09:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same sex, yes. Opposite sex, only until a certain age. My two youngest boys still get baths together and they are 8 and 5. But when I have my neice who's also 8, she takes a bath by herself.
2006-09-05 04:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son is 4 and he loves to run naked after his bath...trying to teach him modesty, but he just loves the wind on his "boys". I'm not really worried about it, though. I'm sure he'll out grow this phase, like many others!!!
2006-09-05 11:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by ladyscootr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that will depend on the thinking of the people around you. It is possible but of a certain age and sex. Cozwe will be violating the norms of life.
2006-09-05 04:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Toffee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on ur own perception
if u are okay, then yes, provided is you guys are sure there'll be no incorrect doings (incest etc)
if the ages of the siblings are young, then yeah why not. but if they are adult female and males, they may be prone to natural sexual stimulation.
2006-09-05 04:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only while you are still kids I would have to say. As you get older and start adolescence I don't think it would be proper conduct to see each other nude.
2006-09-05 04:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by timnehboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋