well, my ex and i broke up almost a year now! actually, he broke up with me. after 3 months (christmas), he sent me this email saying it's weird not talking to me, blah blah, blah. i responded and from then on, random emails will appear in my mailbox. recently, i discovered that he's already has a girlfriend! they've been together since november of last year! it took him 2 freakin months to get over me and the relationship we've had for 2.5 years... so he's emailed me again for my birthday, telling me he's spending time at his sis place while looking for a job.... he omitted an impt. detail, the new girlfriend's with him??? question 1. why does he randomly email me 2. why omit the fact that he's moved on???
opinions, advice, anyone?
2006-09-04 20:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by clarionstarr_30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks a bunch to those who replied! y'all seemed to have a theme going!.... yep, i don't want anything to do with him after i found out he's moved on so fast... i've blocked his email address so i won't see any of his emails. i'm contemplating on changing my phone just in case... but that'll have to wait coz there's more hassles with that than just blocking emails! thank you all!
2006-09-04 21:23:30 · update #1
Heres what i think. He got a gf so soon after your break up because he 1)didnt know how to handle it or 2) wants to act like a badass and that you didnt affect him...but really you did...obviously if hes writting you emails :) Catch my drift...hes not over you..but trying to cover it up with another gf. Good luck girl..and god bless
2006-09-04 20:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not over you. He is so obviously and desperately reaching out to you by constantly emailing you. He has a new girlfriend ok but she's not you. He probably hooked up with her because it was convenient at the time and he was missing you too much. MY advice is to respond to his email by saying. I wish you luck in your job search and add a little detail that will get him off your heels(that's if you want him to leave you alone) Tell him that you were thinking about stopping by so you can meet his new girlfriend and ask him when would be a good time.....this will really get his panties in a bunch. LMAO
2006-09-04 21:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just hasn't gotten over you completely yet. It doesn't mean he's unhappy with his gf or his life or wants to get back together, he just misses you. The best thing to do is ignore him, don't read the emails, block his email address, and forget about him. But don't "say" anything because that'll just make him mad and want to argue and bring up old shite.
Might want to change your phone number if you think he might call?
2006-09-04 20:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually do that. They keep a girl hanging just in case he breaks up with his new girlfriend one day and will need someone there beside him. He can use it as an excuse later to say that he always loved you and had never forgotten you. Don't fall into that trap.
2006-09-04 20:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ocean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the Grass is greener on the other side of the fence thingy. I'm sure he's trying to suck up to you just in case his g/f dumps his butt, Men like to have a women by their side and one in the wings case it blows up. Dont be a second choice to anyone. Tell him to move along
2006-09-04 20:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you let him. Block him from your email or simply email him back with the information you have. As long as you let him keep playing games with you he will. But it will be totally up to you to put a stop to it. He has moved on, let him keep moving.
2006-09-04 20:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by sexylips232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he still has feelings for you. does his girlfriend know about about his emailing to you. probably would tell him to stop emailing me if you want nothing to do with him or change your email address.
2006-09-04 20:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by mskelly:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuring you that he might has something planning of you after of what happened in your past. He may do to get your atention and be his gf again and hurt again........or else, he realize that he loves you.
2006-09-04 21:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested in having relations with u but he likes u as a ex
2006-09-04 20:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes an assol
2006-09-04 20:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋