He's 34,lives with mom,works fast food jobs due to no diploma,smokes cigs(&pot when he gets it)cusses ALOT,has a bad temper,has blown up at me more than once,calling me names&screaming like a maniac! I am too nice for my own good.. hung in there for 8 months.We had some fun...going places together(with my 12 year old boy Jake who is my life)..talking on the phone daily..I showered him with attention..and little cards/gifts. I put my whole heart into our relationship.(felt I loved Jim, & I was raised in a very giving loving family. I wanted to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. He's got angry and dumped me 3 or 4 x's(claims the next day he was" just pissed" he's sorry..blah..blah) I told him I loved him dearly but thought we should try to just be friends 4 awhile. He poured on the effort with xtras phonecalls etc. 4 a bit but it's not going good even as a close friendship. How do I tell him I would like2stay in touch from time2time,but think we aren't good for each other?
2006-09-04 20:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by THE BEST 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him like a bad habit and move on with your life. Ignore him and keep on walking. Don't look back.
2006-09-04 20:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi The Best, If this 34yrs. old man is still living with his mom,and all the jobs he can get is fast foods, and the crappy way he treates you,what took you so long, to relies that this BASTARD is not for you!!! I would just tell the SON OF A
B I T C H to get the hell out of your house,and to never bother you again.You need to break all ties to this JERK.It might be a good ideal to call the polices, and tell them he as a bad temper,and you are afraid that he might hurt you.Tell them you are calling your relationship off. GOOD LUCK.
Clowmy
2006-09-04 20:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dizz all of us do it sweetie, being honest and tell them the way you experience is the basically right way of coping with it. in the journey that they seem to be a real pal they are going to see previous blunders and forgive. Love ya hun Hugs Sugar trojan horse
2016-12-06 10:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by zeigler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah, men are like that. when they lose the girl, then they'll do anything to get her back.
just dump him for good + the friendship
2006-09-04 20:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a copy of what you just told us, mabey he,ll get the hint, I think you,ve done all you can for that relationship, move on.
2006-09-04 20:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him.
you don't need him around your child do you?
bad idea to have him near it sounds like to me.
2006-09-04 20:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to say!
2006-09-04 20:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋