I live in iran. i have plan to go to Italy for studing art,but there is so many problems in my country (WAR maybe)that i'm sceard to leave my parents behind ...what shoud i do?leave and start my life?or stay with my family?
p.s.I am the only child
2006-09-04 20:25:46 · 14 answers · asked by Mahrooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, i think a good starting place would be to talk to your parents get there opinion and go from there... if they have been a big part of your life, they always will be and they will help you to make a decision..... and it would be hard for them, but i am sure they will be able to help you in your decision...
2006-09-04 20:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably unwise to leave your parents behind as you are the only child... I suggest you go gather as much information as you can about migrating... You might want to consider that as the condition in your country is not stable and you have plans to study in Italy... Go live out your dream the best way you can... Discuss this with your parents..
2006-09-05 03:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Italy for your studies. Set yourself up there. It should not take more than six months. A part time job and a apartment. Check with employment office for a job for your father or mother matching their skills. Bring them with you. Start a new life dude. It's worth to struggle for a better future. But do not leave your parents behind.
2006-09-05 06:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by M1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live in Iran too.when i was 18 i went to Austria to continue my study.but then the war with Iraq started after 2 weeks.things got really upside down.my parents couldn't sent me money.i couldn't work there,i was worried about my parents,and so many other problems.so after 8 months i returned back to Iran.till this day i regret my returning back.of course i finished college here and i have a good life,but i am worried about my kids future.talk to your parents,if you can all leave Iran together this would be the best way.with a country so unstable no one knows what future will bring.
2006-09-05 05:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents want what is best for their children, even if it means them leaving at some stage, go and study, you dont have to stay away for ever, IM sure your folks dont want you to be worrying about them and missing opportunities because of it
Have you told them off your concerns?
2006-09-05 03:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your parents and pray to God or Allah that things will work out. I will pray for you, war is such a terrible thing.
What are your thoughts about what Osama did to the US on 9/11?
2006-09-05 03:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really hard one ,I have 5 children and I would hate them to leave me but I most of all want them to be happy and safe ,so in that spot I would tell my child to go ,be happy, be safe and live your life,how do your parants feel?talk to them and then think about what you realy want and go for it.
2006-09-05 03:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should persue what you want to do with your life! If your parents want to come then awesome, but if not go ahead and follow your dreams!!!
2006-09-05 03:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try to move the whole family out to itly and make a new life out there
2006-09-05 03:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decision Making: Make up your mind and stick to it.
2006-09-05 03:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋