if a man sees a woman needs something and he doesnt offer because he wants her to ask him for it. is that a bad thing. as far as in a relationship. plz no smart remarks
2006-09-04 20:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something psychological. but it doesnt mean that guy is a bad person. but then again, he feels way up there and u have to ask or i wont give. either he is a miser, or just feels like u have to ask to get it. some sort of a psychological sadist. weird kind of man.
2006-09-04 20:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not know your ages but I am assuming you are on the youngish side. Guys today have been raised and indoctrinated in a different era. Chivalry is something basically foreign to them. NOW and the other feminist booted it to the back of the closet. He may not think to ask you because he figures you, like those feminist, find it insulting or condescending if a man tries to step in and "rescue" you exposing that you are not complete equals but weak and need saving. So, he does nothing because he doesn't feel he is expected to do anything. Had he been me, or many from my generation we would have been adept at seeing that. It is not him, just the skewed climate he has been raised in.
2006-09-04 21:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is more the man doesn't see that the woman needs something. They are totally blind. I have that problem with my man. After almost 9 years he still doesn't think about me when doing things, just himself. I think it is the way they are made.
2006-09-04 20:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a very good thing to do. Asking before being asked is sort of romantic but not all the time.
2006-09-04 20:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All ladies I love they will all get what they like. Why not, if I can afford to give them the thing they like then they are happy and they will make me happy in return. It is a win win strategy.
2006-09-04 20:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man wants the woman to be assertive and self-responsible.
2006-09-04 20:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys are guys..they don't usually have the time to be romantic. don't expect them to be your knight in the shining Armour..you'll be disappointed..
2006-09-04 20:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the woman really needs it she'll ask.
2006-09-04 20:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, other than him wanting to feel superior.
2006-09-04 20:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by viper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋