me and my husband have been married for 7 years and have 4 children ,2 with a desability and his father has just passed away.because his mother cant afford the full cost for the funeral all the family is helping out .my husband has explain that because we dont work we dont have much money to survive on and with 3 kids in nappies still they dont seem to understand that,when he tried to explain that to a friend of the family her response was "not my fault yur kids have a desability thats yours"does that seem fair?in the 7 years when we have needed help for baby sitters or when i went into hospital or anything no one wanted to help or were to busy.my husband will have to miss out on his fathers last good buy because he has no car to get there and istead of them trying to help him they said he has to find his own way.does it seem fair that when we need them they are not there even for birthdays ,partys,emergencys. but when they need him he has to be available at any cost?
2006-09-04 20:20:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No don't feel guilty. You can only do what you can do. If you don't have it then you just don't have it. But if you not giving it because you feel like you have be done bad by the family then that is wrong. Families need to stick together, because no matter what you are all each other have.
Hope it works out.
2006-09-04 20:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by sexylips232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you wrote 15 lines of explaination on matters relating to money for the dead .... does not reflect very well on you.
Look in the mirror, that's where the problem lies.
2006-09-04 20:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by KH 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
share the expenses with family members........try cremation its cheeper.......
2006-09-04 20:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋