i was masturbating last night, i mean the whole nine yards, and my girlfriend walked in on me (i was in the bathroom). u think ima grose? or is that natural? and shud she b upset? (she is)
2006-09-04 20:14:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the wrst has happened..she left me a message..she doesnt wanna see me nemore!
2006-09-04 20:34:34 · update #1
It's not a problem. Everyone does it (even most women) and there's nothing wrong with it. She shouldn't be upset. Just because you masturbate doesn't mean she doesn't turn you on - sometimes you just gotta get one off, you know?
2006-09-04 20:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not her fault thats she is upset. I used to be that way about my ex husband but it was because he made it so obvious that he noticed other women so I stayed insecure about him all the time. After I left him I was never jealous of masterbation again. Just to see if I had been overreacting I called my boyfriend one day and told him I had just got one and he got upset. I realized at that point that getting mad about masterbation was a normal reaction for people who are insecure in the relationship.
2006-09-04 21:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally freak out if I caught my bf doing that. Why did you not want to wake her up and have her help you out? You must have been really aroused, what does the whole nine yards mean in masturbating anyhow.
2006-09-04 20:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I walked in on my boyfriend I would me a bit upset that he didn't come to me first before masterbating, but most men do it!
2006-09-04 20:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't feel bad about it it's perfectly natural. my partner does it especially if i'm not in the mood in fact i tell him to. yr girl needs to calm down, just try to make her understand it has nothing to do with her. she probably feels like she's done something wrong. good luck.
2006-09-04 20:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be upset if i was your girlfriend because the fact that you were doing that would make me feel as if i am not good enough to satisfy you???
2006-09-04 20:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it, for goodness sakes...all men do. If I was your girlfriend, I would be embarrassed.
2006-09-04 20:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i found my hubby doing tat, i'll have lots of question marks in my mind
y he prefer to DIY??? wats wrong with me??? etc.........
2006-09-04 20:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Western 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think id be turned on
2006-09-04 20:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya, I'd be upset.
2006-09-04 20:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Blossom F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋