and got their feelings hurt really bad. because that person did not feel love for that person. but the person would say I love you but later on that person found out that. that person did not love them back at all. has that ever happened to any one where you loved guy or women and you found out later on that that guy or women did not love you at all. and that was lies that person was telling you that they love you.
2006-09-04 20:00:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh hunny I feel your pain. People will tell you that you are better off without them, or that you will move on and that only time will heal this wound. They are all right with saying that, but the best thing that you can do right now is see what YOU got out of the entire experience. Here is a relationship that you respected and cherished enough to classify as love. You shared with this person a connection that you felt they had with you in return. Unfortunately you have found that they do not feel the same way in return. Depending on how things came to a close there is a chance they told you they "never loved you" becuase they are afraid that they did and now they have really lost out. Otherwise it is a crappy situation that you can learn from. You know now that saying I love you is not something everyone can handle saying, and it makes you honor when you say it to someeone. (or at least it should) Secondly those feelings of love on your part were not wasted. You showed this person what it was like to be loved. You changed their life. Made it better for the time you were together. It may be hard to see now, but when you finally find the person that can reciprocate the love you can give, you will be thankful that you had the experience to realize how lucky it is. Many will love, but only one will last, and thats the one you need to stay focused and optimistic about. Right now, you are just learning what love really is. It can only go up from here, and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-04 20:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by girl_like_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah man been there done that. I have meet some ladies that have just blown me a way instantly I mean Luv on sight and I felt we both shared the same feelings about each other and enjoyed the company. Not !!!! All I can say is back up re-exam why your feelings are so and theirs aren't. Maybe your a head of the game and the other person is not sure what they want. Back off from the love thing and increase the friendship aspect of your relationship. Learn what is love to them and for them and take it from there some love is instant but some is grown from freindship.
2006-09-05 03:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by patrec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't but that is a clear statement of the word "Used Up", This girl must have use you for a reason that she only knows what. It was just so sad on your part that after giving her pure love and attention, lies and hatred were all she could give back. Of course it hurts, whether she have love you for real or not, both just hurts the same, right? and don't you ever worry coz everyone in this world will eventually got hurt when they fall inlove.. only in different ways.. your not alone..
2006-09-05 03:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't shed off ur personality... If ur beloved doesn't care for u, then he/she is not worth enough 2 get ur love. Move on, choose someone who's the best one 2 understand u. Don't cry 4 them who wont ever come 2 rub off ur tears. Find out someone who'll even can cry 2 see u r crying .
Hope u'll find the best !!!
2006-09-12 11:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Innocence Redefined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love, more often than not, one is carried away by the blind emotions. Many go astray, as a result. In some cases, they willingly allow themselves to be deluded and duped by the other person. Love is indeed a dope, which entraps the parties.
2006-09-05 04:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i loved a girl but she never reciprocated. i had the wound for so long. i will never let it happen again. still i think of her sometims. i will not blame her. but it all happened. she still lives happily. may be she may be married. i dont disturb her anymore.
she was so beautiful that i felt a prey and got attracted to her. What to do? We have to take life as it comes.
2006-09-05 05:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never fallen in love with a person who HAS felt the same for me!
2006-09-05 03:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened once and it hurt real bad for a while, but I'm over it now (or at least I hope I am) and I've met new people and I'm happy.
2006-09-05 03:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i did... it was ugly and hurtful and cruel... and wish that no body has to go thru that period. unfortunately it happens a lot... are you going thru the same thing? just try to hold on.. i know its real difficult but we just cant quit living.
2006-09-05 03:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and it was an awful feeling but if they are going to lie to you about something like love, then they are really not worth it.
2006-09-05 03:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by brooksta3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋