im a good looking chick, but everytime i get a guy, braking up with them is always the exact same story!!!! they meet a nother girl and then always run back to me!! im sick of it, i have a great personallity, have looks what do guys want from us the problem deosnt lie with me!! and im no one rebound chicki!!! i look for the guy i want they say u must not run after guys and love but if everyone believed in that no one will get to no one i always pick the wrong guys why are they like this!!!!
2006-09-04 19:55:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the problem isn't you...it's the maturity of the boys you date.
If they are so immature that another woman can capture their interest...it's good that you get rid of them anyway.
You'll find the right guy...
...you sound like a great lady that any man would be proud to know and love....and respect.
2006-09-04 19:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an easy question to answer online. There is a chance they're ALL the wrong type, but this is less likely. I think it has soemthing to do with you. Not necessarily a bad thing, but some girls are too nice and submissive to their guys, which makes them take the girl for granted. In the end, try an older therapist, if only for the life experience they have. Online people will do you no good. I'm a guy and I can't for the life of me understand why anyone who leave someone like you, IF what you said about yourself is all true (no offense).
2006-09-05 03:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Psychotic Clown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I totally understand what you are saying but it also works the other way. I am a nice guy, not too bad looking and am witty as. But I became too nice. When I was at school I had heaps of friends that were girls, but would never date me, instead they dated blokes that use to hit them and make their life hell. Once they ended it they would run to me. After a while I gave up on them because they kept dating the same idiots.
I don't know whether it is because ladies have to have someone by their side but most of them date the first bloke to show them any attention and ninety per cent of the time its not the bloke they want. Look through those clowns because obviously you know and I am sure that if I knew you, I would know that you deserve more.....................................
2006-09-05 03:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by buckobella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well i am a guy but to tell u the truth sometimes we are as scared of commitment just as u girls are and we dont really know how to react to this its not that we dont want to tell u but its just that we dont know how we dont want to look week so we just react the way we know best even tho its the wrong way any how on behalf of all the self respecting guys out there i apologise to u and all the other ladies out there who have been hurt by our foolish behaver. i wish u all good and hope u find your dream guy in the future PS please learn from your mistakes so as u dont get hurt again and fall for some other idiot .
2006-09-05 03:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lady I know that works at a bar told me that she doesn't date
any more, because she doesn't want the men talking about her
the way they come up there and talk about their girl friends..
You have to earn respect .Years ago you would never hear a woman use bad language. Men respected women.When women
started using filthy language and easy to get into bed men
lost their respect. The bartender told me that one guy told her,"
The only reason I date my girlfriend,she is easy to get in bed.
2006-09-05 03:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by CODY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guy is like that like that. maybe that some guys dont know what they want. but some guy do. it just take time to look for one.
i was in the kinda situation too. girl come and go and back. until i might with my wife.
2006-09-05 03:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding a good man is like a needle in a haystack. they stopped making real men around 1970. so just chill and check people out for a while before you date them. 9 times out of ten they are not going to show you their true colors till months later. so kick back and dont make yourself so available for them. make them work for it.
2006-09-05 03:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, guys don't know what they're doing. it's a known fact. i include myself in that. girls sometimes tend to look too hard. don't put ur whole heart into these guys. that hurts too much. have fun, relax, kiss and tell, then throw em back when they wanna leave.
2006-09-05 02:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you said was, "I'm a good looking chick."
There is your answer.
2006-09-05 03:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just meeting the wrong guys...
2006-09-05 02:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋