So I have been hanging out with this girl lately, group situations, etc. She always ends up coming and being close to me, I catch her looking at me, and if I start paying attention so someone else or another girl she always seems to be right there. I get to thinking that she likes me, so I ask her out, and she says isn't sure she wants a bf now, wants to get to know me better, that kind of deal. So I am cool with it, and then she comes over to my house, wants to basically hang out, makes comments like I want to kiss her, etc.m ends up hanging out with me for 5 hours. So my question is what is going on? Do I have a shot with her? Is she just playing me? Thanks for the help.
2006-09-04 19:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by skiguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I confess that I myself have done this move. Most likely you are very close to what she wants in a boyfriend. She is probably scared of commitment. A lot of people associate that problem with men, but I can say that from previous relationships and just my life course I don't do well when I feel like I am beginning a relationship. I have no problem being exclusive with a person and I am not trying to keep them in limbo, there is just a difference of being comfortable around them. Just keep reminding her that you are interested in her and that you aren't going anywhere. If you keep pushing a relationship though, or that is what you really want, she will most likely RUN. As fast as she thinks she can get from you. Being cornered is the worst situation espeically when she has deidcated so much time to you. Girls don't give 5 hours to a guy that they are dicking around. Keep her environment calm and changing, and she'll be around for a while.
I hope that helps!
2006-09-04 20:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by girl_like_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the system you're on the go....
just be there for her, in time you might find out she's trying to show you something or letting you know more about her, aside of being an ordinary chick... she doesn't want any commitment but she wants you get me?
this is an interesting situation you've got but don't spoil it by getting aggressive or make out a one night stand...
good luck, you'll need it trust me...
2006-09-05 04:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by SEDATED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is playing you, I think you just might have a decent girl on your hands. That's something rare these days.
2006-09-05 02:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm....well, she sounds like she doesn't know what she's doing. i think she does like u. a boyfriend means exclusive. try just dating her. then ask her. for some reason, that usually works.... i have no clue as to why, but hey. least we aint tied down
2006-09-05 02:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my openion she likes you... want to date you but is insecure about something...are you really hot and very smooth with women? sometimes girls get self conscious when the guy is too hot and says that they do not wanna date eventhough they do... maybe talk with her about it... ask her whats going on..
2006-09-05 02:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ariel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance.
2006-09-05 02:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she picking her nose and eating it?
2006-09-05 03:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by doglas p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a retard. do you need it to be spelled out for you
2006-09-05 02:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Ted747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋