Do you believe one should change for another person, like in the small things,?

Question

I mean our partners shouddn't accept every crap we throw @ em and they should compromise too right. Because when u love someone wanna make them happy and love sacrificies!!!!!!
What's YOUR opinion on this??

Answer 1

Yes, in any relationship both people are going to have to compromise and change in order to live together happily.

Answer 2

I think there is a difference with trying to control annoying behaviors that may irk your partner, and changing yourself. There should be a bigger picture that allows the little things to roll over. The best way to resolve the little things that may seem petty is to talk to your partner about why you are making the change. Maybe it's something you don't like about yourself to begin with and the fact that they don't like it made you want to change. It should never be a change for someone else. You are giving them too much power and most likely when you ask them to change something that you think is little for them, they will become hostile and wonder why you need the control. Love may have sacrafices but they should come on a two way street!

Answer 3

There has to be compromise in any relationship and there are bound to be little things that you and your partner might have to change for each other to make the relationship work, but you have to be willing to make the change without resentment and you have to be able to discuss with each other the things that need to be changed.

Don't ever change yourself for anyone else though. If someone cant accept you for who you are than you dont need them!!

Answer 4

you should change BUT for the better! if you bicker learn how stop and so forth to become a better person.change to make the relationship work if whatever you are doing is tering it apart, and change for the other person but to make them happy and not cause them any pain, not because you want to because you want to look and be the next Adrianna Lima.

Answer 5

six years ago, I thought the same way as you did... But after a while, the little things snowballed, and now my wife and I barely speak to each other.

We both would be a lot happier now if we spoke up sooner...

Don't ignore it, speak up about it NOW...

Answer 6

There has to be limits on how much you change.

Answer 7

Wrong time of the month huh?

Answer 8

but that applies 2 u as well, so sacrifices must be made.

Answer 9

I think it's o.k. to change for someone you love to an extent...............