I just met a new guy, and I was talking ta him on IM earlier, and had my cam on. Eventually we got ta talkin about me changing into my PJ's, and he wanted me ta take my shirt and cami off on the cam. I noticed on his Myspace, that he likes being spontanious, and enjoys being around spontaneous people, and that's said what he was trying ta teach me how ta do, and that he wanted me ta step outa my comfort zone a little bit, and learn more about myself, but I wasn't sure if that's what he meant of if he really meant ta say..."I wanna see you in just your bra." I told him I had never done anything like that, and he said..."I know, and you're scared. Somethin, Somethin, Somethin." What do you guys think? If you need more details, just ask.
2006-09-04 19:37:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To answer somea your questions, I'm 16, and of course I didn't do what he was asking me ta do.
2006-09-04 19:49:22 · update #1
It depends what you want in a man.
There are lots of ways to be spontaneous and step out of your comfort zone with your shirt still on.
Also, it's not perverted for a man to want to see your breasts. It's natural. Men want to see your breasts. We are wired that way. No wondering. We just want to.
What are you going to do knowing this?
2006-09-04 19:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My own personal advice is never send a picture over the Internet that you don't want to see in your Mom's house -- you don't know this guy that well and there's a BIG difference from stepping out of your comfort zone and being half naked when you don't know who will see the picture next or what he'll do to it behind your back. Stepping out of your comfort zone is more along the lines of square dancing when you're used to hip hop - at least for the first few dates.
2006-09-04 19:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by crowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
user-friendly answer: definite My closest pal is male and he became raped as quickly as by his then female pal, he became blacked out on the time. Rape in that's maximum uncomplicated definition is forced intercourse. additionally in some international locations forcing an merchandise, no longer purely a physique area, into *particular places* is assessed as rape, or drowsing with somebody below a definite age could count variety as rape. So in such international locations if a woman did that to a male she could be raping him.
2016-09-30 08:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm on webcam and a guy asks me to show him boobs... I get a sharpie marker and a blank sheet of paper. then i draw breasts on it, and "BOOBS" across the top and hold it up to the cam. Guys LOVE to test a girls boundaries! It shows them how much respect they have for themselves. If you respect yourself and don't just flash a random guy from IM, he might think you're worthy of talking to more than just one night... Guys will tell girls they are spontaneous in order to get girls to do things they normally wouldn't do. Just think of the girls on that series "Girls Gone Wild..." Do you think those girls were put up to it or not? Of course they were. just be yourself and don't worry about what he says about being scared!!!
2006-09-04 19:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just wants to see you naked.. First comes the shirt and pants, so you're just in your panties, then he wants you to take those off.
Being spontanious does not mean you have to take your clothes off.
2006-09-04 19:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be an old man looking for a young women to get naked so he can play with his self keep ur clothes on u dont have to get out of ur comfort zone for nobody
2006-09-04 19:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pervert. If you were my sister, daughter, friend, I would find him and kick his ***.
Please block this creep from your messenger. If you are under 18, call the police.
He may play these games with children. At the least he likes to play with people's heads. Who needs a "friend" like that?
2006-09-04 19:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by eugjoh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bra your wearing a bra hes going to ask you to loose that next i think and then what your bottoms and then mayby just mayby the panties more details if you could add more details it might paint a clearer picture it depends what do you think
2006-09-04 19:47:49 · answer #8 · answered by Waltz06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could have been an old man waiting to get his jollies when you undressed?Are you sure this is a guy close to your age?
2006-09-04 20:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was jerking off the entire time. Men are filthy, useless pigs, HELLO--all they are good for is sex. That's all they think about, too. Do NOT fall for these stupid lines.
2006-09-04 19:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋