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He's a lot older than me just so you know. (19-26)

WE WANT TO GET MARRIED BUT I GONNA PROPOSE.

HOW DO I DO IT.

I want to do something making fun of our age gap.

Like maybe since he's so much older, I was thinking of taking the ring and hooking it up to an oxygen tank? Is that funny?

2006-09-04 18:58:51 · 16 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Eh we don't joke about the age gap. Actually hes kind of sensitive about it. He made a remark once that he was afraid people would think he was too old for me.

But! I want to make him feel more comfortable by showing him the gap is ok!

2006-09-04 19:07:28 · update #1

*I'm 19
*He's 26

KTHX keep sending proposal ideas

2006-09-04 19:08:20 · update #2

16 answers

just ask

2006-09-04 19:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by Southie9 5 · 1 0

If he has not asked you do not do it! Marriage is not an overnight thing! And when a child becomes involved, it will not be about what you like or want but what is best for the child!

For openers, that is two parents, mother and father, for life!

If the individual loves you, he will be breaking down the doors, swimming across shark infested waters to get to you!

If you are now sleeping together, that says it all! He has what he wants, convenient SEX, and that is as far as he is going!

Do not get your hopes up for more! If the later is true, then keep your panties on when you meet the next one.

Once they know what is in the box, the gift is old stuff and nobody cares about how it gets re wrapped!

2006-09-04 19:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all the age thing is nothing...my friend was 21 and she married a 43 year old...as to the proposal thing I would go simple and sweet...lots of candles and stuff...if you want something bigger take him to a restaraunt and talk to the waiter before hand and give them some gifts to bring out during the dinner, things that remind you of him or things that helped bring you together. then at the end for the last gift have it a letter describing how you feel about him, and how much you love him, then when he looks up at you...you can pull out a gorgeous diamond ring...sure it would be weird for him to wear but it would be funny and you would always remember it.

2006-09-04 19:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by EmmaGee 2 · 0 0

How old are you, 19 (I was confused by the weird indication of age), and how long have you guys been going out? Even though we are living in the modern age, I would suggest YOU not do the proposing. If you were older and in a relationship of equals, it'd say, "go for it girl!" But you sound very young and naive.

2006-09-04 19:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How long have you been dating? If it's less than a year, then wait a while. Do you think your relationship is at a mature stage to move on to marriage? Guys prefer to do the chasing and the proposing so don't rush it. Everything in good time.

2006-09-04 19:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0 0

if your 19 and he's 26 that's only 7 yrs. apart you could have sex for more than 50 yrs. and maybe more. unlike me i married at age 66 and she was 22. we made love for about 3 yrs. as soon as i turned 69 nothing worked. so just give him a ring with a bottle of viagra.

2006-09-04 19:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Omg lol whyyyy ought to childrens and childrens be so ignorant at the moment? Married at 14? Having *** at 12? what's incorrect with us!? US people ought to sense embarrassment about OURSELVES! Btw i'm thirteen and way more beneficial mature than many of the folk older than me on the following. every person else agree!?

2016-10-15 23:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by banegas 2 · 0 0

Hmm. Proposing is tricky business. Do you two make A LOT of jokes about your age difference? If you don't make fun of it often, often, often, then I would recommend AGAINST using that. However, if it's a common joke between you two, then it's probably okay.

Oxygen tank=expensive.

2006-09-04 19:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 0 0

He's 7 years older than you... Ever heard of the 7 year itch.. Put the ring on a tub of vagisil...LOL no that's funny.

2006-09-04 19:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0 0

He's not THAT much older. If he was in his 70s or so then I can see that, but...7 years?

2006-09-04 19:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Damn Dirty Ape 1 · 1 0

cant u just say the truth that he 2 old 4 u

2006-09-04 19:07:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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