I was raped when i was 14 and i have never fully gotten over it. I am 19 years old now and i have gone and seen someone so that i can get help. The people that did this to me were never locked up due to the fact that the police didn't have enough evidence.
I just don't think that i can live anymore, i see the men that did this to me all the time please some one help me before i do something that i might not live to regret
2006-09-04 18:53:14 · 18 answers · asked by princess_kimnus 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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Take care and God Bless you !
2006-09-04 19:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
A bad childhood experience lingers around for a lifetime, it creates a negative impact about the incident for years to come. Rape not only effects a person physically, but also emotionally & psychologically.
First you decide what will make you more happy, teaching this man a lesson for lifetime or just forgetting about this man & carrying out with you life.
If you decide on revenge, make a strategy, study the man, what he does, where he goes, what he drinks, he would definately have some weak point ! maybe drinks or woman? Set him up in such a way that he reveals your rape details when he is either drunk or with a woman you have set him up with, clearly been recorded on a hidden camera, then re-open the rape case with evidence, I'm sure this will make you more happy & content.
If you dont choose to do this, move out of where you are, start a life fresh. get into physical training as it with strengthen your mind & body, make sure it will never happen to you again, and if it ever happens, you would know how to fight back.
" Watch Rocky movies for a change, maybe it will inspire you to get up as many times as you fall, and also to hit back harder after every fall" The Eye of the Tiger !
2006-09-04 19:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by El-Nino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, NEVER listen to people like the one who left the first response...you have to love & respect yourself first before you can pass that along to others. If you feel like you are alone & that you have no where else to turn, STOP feeling that way, b/c you do have options. First of all, GOD loves you, & I don't even know you, but I care about you too! If I didn't, I wouldn't be taking the time right now to be writing this. Try to pull yourself through the pain just long enough to get somewhere or call somebody for help. Please don't kill yourself. God put you & I & everyone else on earth for a reason, to live & to be happy. Everyone deserves to be happy, so give yourself a shot at it, you deserve it too! My husband & I just went to a funeral in July, his 21 year old cousin committed suicide. It was awful, it was so sad to see all my in-laws sitting there helplessly, & wondering WHY??? I don't know if you have any family members near you, but please, DO NOT be afraid to ask for help. That is your first step to getting help is admitting that you need it. Don't let anyone make you feel bad either b/c of what happened to you. You are a human being that deserves all of the best in life just like everyone else. One other thing I can strongly advise, is to pray. Call out to God & I promise you without a doubt, He will listen & He WILL help! God bless you dear friend & I hope that you can see past your troubles just for a moment to give yourself time to realize you do have a choice.
2006-09-04 19:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by tlcss06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just put yourself into a better position. Move and relocate yourself . Your not damaged goods and any one that has been raped will tell you. It's not worth hurting the ones around you that love you and would like to see you for a very long time to come . All men are not that way . But it only takes a few to screw it up for the rest . I'll bet your a really neat person and you owe it to yourself to go forward with your life without letting them destroy it over and over for you . Don't let them do that to you .......Just relocate and you will be happy and make new friends and even maybe marry someone really nice . Maybe even have kids ...How neat would that be .....
2006-09-04 19:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing even same age, I didn't even try to get the guys locked up I figured since they didn't have any bruises they would have been let go anyway. I don't see the guys anymore but they were a bad people, one even told my sister what he did. What I did was act like it never hurt me, when I would see them I would keep away head really fast towards anyone I knew to avoid them. I tried to hurt my self but wasn't very successful that's not the way to go anyway it's like you let them win. I found my self a man I loved who took care of me I never really told him what happened but someone did, (I denied it). But the men who did that to me would keep their distance after I was with my BF maybe out of fear of being hurt. I suggest you get your self some really good friends (guy's if you can deal) and spend time with them for support always have their number at hand if you ever feel too scared or just too "much." I don't think you should let these men know they hurt you and if you were to do anything to your self it would just make these A**holes feel proud that they did that to you. The moment one of the guys that did that to me noticed I was kind of scared it would just make him smile and he'd laugh if he thought I could hear. I know it sucks I cant have "relations" without thinking of that moment but I try to just keep to every other aspect of my life. Maybe you should move but you don't need to hurt your self i really think you need some one to count on... (also sending them a very violent message with some guy friends doesn't hurt, it can make u feel a bit better believe me)
2006-09-07 20:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by seala_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo Answers is not a place to get this kind of help. But probably you are frightened of approaching the kind of people who could really help you, such as a school guidance counsellor or a close relative.
The best answer I can give is to find someone, not on the internet but in real life, who can point you in the right direction. You can get over this, but you need to be around the right kinds of people. Approach a counsellor or even a policewoman.
2006-09-04 19:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to be with you for the rest of your life. Get away from this town, start fresh and new. Don't let anyone know your past, and don't become a victim again. Only tell someone you trust about your past. You can do it, I did it 20 years ago.
2006-09-04 19:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a firm believer in people are gonna do what they're gonna do. So you gotta ask yourself, are the consequences of the actions your considering worth whatever it is you might do? Whether it's to get revenge on them or kill yourself just make sure you'll have no regrets. In my personal opinion, if your plannin on suicide you may as well get revenge first.
2006-09-04 18:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by zooba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you see them all the time? Do you know these people. if so you need to move somewhere that you won't run into them or stop going to the places that you see them. I'm really sorry. Get some help and keep talking to people
2006-09-04 19:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by Angela A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't really the place to be looking for help. I am sure that there are professionals you can go to for help. If you are worried you might do something bad maybe you should call a friend or a family member and talk to them.
2006-09-04 18:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋