I'm in love with a man nearly twice my age.?

Question

YEAH. Wutchu gonna do about it?

Come on! SOMEONE WANNA FIGHT ME ABOUT IT?

TELL ME ITS GROSS?

BRING IT ON BITCHZ.

I'm 18 BOIZ.

Answer 1

~If you're 10 and he's 20, that's a real problem for you. If you're 45 and he's 90, that's a real problem for him. If you're 18 and he's 36, he'll only be 1/3 older than you in 20 years. Whoopee.
Given your remarks, I'd peg you emotionally at 12 to 15. If he finds an interesting and meaningful relationship with that, he's only a couple years older than you in that department at best. If he doesn't, when the lay gets old, he'll move on to something better. Shouldn't be that hard for him to find.
Given that you felt the need to post here, you've obviously got a problem with the situation. Not to worry. I couldn't care less.

Answer 2

I'm not going to do anything about it. The laws of averages will. I'll just sit back and watch.

NO I won't tell you its gross. Stupid perhaps but not gross. Your 18 and if he is about twice that he would be about 36. In 4 more years he is 40. Most 40 year old men are not too keen on having a bunch of littl babies. Most 40 year old men are looking at getting their kids grown up. So your not even in the same place in life.

Whats his problem that he can't handle a woman his own age?

The law of averages states he has some real problems with women. Most men who date much younger women do.

The law of averages states that you will be divorced or "broke up" if you don't bother to get married with in about 5 years or less.

The law of averages says it will be a violent break up (75% chance)

No I don't need to fight you on this one...your in for a fight without me stepping in. You just are not bright enough to know it yet.

So the real question is, "How many illegitimate children can you make with him before its over"?

When it IS over what are you going to use for money to start over when you have to leave?

I am much much older than you. I've been around long enough to see how this all works out. I don't have to do a thing. Your on your on path to self distruct.

Get my email address and write back to me in five years and tell me I'm wrong.

I have a proposal for you. We will meet at a bank of your choosing. I'll put up $100, and you do the same. If in 5 years your still togther, the money is yours. If you part with him before that, the money is mine and all the interest too. If your so sure of yourself put up the cash and lets open the account. By the way I've made a lot of money doing this sort of thing.

I say your stupid. Prove your not by naming your bank and putting up the cash. Otherwise shut up.

now, wutchu gonna do about it?

Answer 3

try not to upset your mum too much because at the end of the day she is your mum. I think you should sit down and talk to your mum and let her know that you are in love with this man and there is nothing she can do to tear you guys apart and that she will have to get used to it because he is going to be in your life forever. But also let her know that you love her and if she can give you a good reason apart from age why you shouldn't be with this guy you will give her thoughts some consideration.

Answer 4

There's nothing wrong or shocking about that. What am I going to do? I'm going to wish you well. If I knew your address, I might send you a card for your wedding.

I'd have given you a thumbs up on your question, but you don't seem to want an answer to a question as you want to outrage someone. Well, I agree! It's really dumb and immature to say it's "GROSS", but it seems a little immature too to flaunt your relationship like that. If you're in love, just enjoy being in love and forget about anyone else who's probably just saying things cause deep down they're jealous.

Answer 5

yeah so am i! i hope you the best in all that you do there is nothing like a man who appreciates you for the real woman that you are. the man that i am with has no bank account but is the best person that i have ever met so i dont know where all these women get the idea that all older men have these huge bank accounts i am 19 and the man of my dreams is 43 so i dont see a problem with that at all and since you are eighteen there is nothing that any one can do about it except ***** and complain good luck and i wish you the best

Answer 6

you don't seem to mind.. so what's the problem... but piece of advice.... you are not at the same time in your lives, and maturity might be an issue. Maybe now you feel all big and mature... but eventually, he might start patronising you and you wont feel as confident as why you entered this relationship. For your sake I hope not and hope that you guys work trought this little issue that if you make clear between the two of you... won't cause you any trouble... if you are ready to deal with society's sometime judgmental rules

Answer 7

In the beginning it is OK! But when you are fifty and he is seventy, it will be extremely hard for you!

Men your age will be in better physical shape, he will have medical issues. You will be ready for what ever, he will be looking at the grave yard.

It will be hard to keep true to your marriage, both in and out of bed! And hard as he may try, he will not be able to be all the man you may need, want or desire!

Answer 8

well theres nothing with datin someone twice your age.but if your under the age of 15 then there's a big problem there.the law gets involed,parents might freak

Answer 9

It doesn't matter as long as your over 18

Answer 10

Is he rich? Let me marry him too. I'm a guy, but that's ok you can have him in the bed.