I like this guy and he said that he likes me too, but we are not really in the bf/gf relationship yet. evryday he tells me he loves me, but I just cant seem to imagine us being like this forever. I asked him if there will ba a chance that we will be in a relationship and he says I shuold wait for three months. I really love him so much that I'm making the moves so that we can be together. should I be doing all of these or not?
2006-09-04 18:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by _gM_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, today nothing wrong at all, A woman deserves to pursue something she is interested in, why should she have to hold back..
2006-09-04 18:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by slaytanicmobilization 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your just starting this relationship , wait the three month's. I rush into bf/gf relationship too quickly just to get hurt after a month or two when it's doesn't workout. So play it slow, make sure he's loving you as much as you love him if not, you may want to put your feeling in check.
2006-09-05 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by wow_whataguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to a point. I agree with your man though slow it down. I know love can be exciting and such. As far as you courting him into marriage I say shoot why not. Honestly deep down inside I'd love my girl even more if she's the one who proposes the engagement for marriage kinda a secret dream of mine. But I could ask her as well. Gotta find her first do u know of any miss right's in your area? LOL.
2006-09-05 01:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt, im a man and believe me i know it, the more you do something that seems to be like "begging" guys move backwards, all you have to do is without even mentioning to him that you will do it .. do the following
1. stare at other guys
2. watch their butts while passing you..
3. make him see that you're enjoying talking to other guys
4. tell him no sometimes when he invites you out
5. dont answer the phones when he calls sometimes.
all i mean is to make him wants you.. stop showing him how much you want him, make him feel he might loose you..
believe me if he really loves you he will run after you like a ***
if not .. there is one last solution
dump him and date me :)
qandil@eim.ae
2006-09-05 01:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Red Dragon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur makin moves on him and he's not jumpen at ya there is somethin wrong with him. but if u really want him then get him wasted or at least tipsy then pull some serious moves on him and if he still doesn't do anything than he just frankly doesn't want you in that way and u should just respect his wishes and let him be blind!!and WAIT for him to come around.
2006-09-05 01:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Matthew G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck! Why not? One caveat, if you are doing all the work...check his body language.
Does he look you straight in the eyes etc?
Is he genuinely happy to be with you?
Most men secretly would appreciate it if a woman flirted with them. So ladies...give it a shot!
2006-09-05 01:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st century. Go for it! Men shouldn't be the only ones asking people out on dates anymore!
2006-09-05 01:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by icomeanons 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait three months? that sounds sketchyyyy..
i'd make sure he wasn't working on a side project...
2006-09-05 01:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really love him and he ask for time you should respect that.
wouldn't you want that from someone u love?
2006-09-05 01:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by psychpath64 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh, he's such an a**! how can he do this?
after 2 months, if he's not bothered, move on! :)
2006-09-05 01:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋