My boy friend can go the whole day ignoring me,
we live pretty far apart and see eachother 2 times a week,
he doesnt do any thing remotly sweet weve never been out for dinner or any thing like that.And we have been together for a bit over 5 months now. but he is a nice guy.see im confused what do you think could make this better or what do you think i should do?
Thank you:)
2006-09-04 18:28:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that he can go the whole day ignoring you just isn't right. It's one thing to have a life outside of a relationship (work, family, hobbies) but from that statement he seems to be too consumed in his own life.. If he is your man he needs to act the part and show you that he cares.. the first step would be to not ignore you and show you the affection you deserve as a female! At five months you two should be doing activites together, like going out.. You need to have a serious, deep talk with him (in person!) and find out what is going on as soon as possible.. Gurl don't waste your time if he is unresponsive because you could find somebody ten times better than him.
2006-09-04 18:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why havent u guys gone out on a "real"date?? do u not have time for each other.have u told him how u feel..maybe he was no money to take u out to a fancy place tell him that ur not like that i hope he comes around and u 2 work this out best of luck
keep me posted
2006-09-05 01:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by orangejuice85 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel - see how he feels...
You guys need to start communicating about how you feel before you get fed up.. I know how you feel... my partner can be a bit like that sometime. I just try to talk to him, tell him how im feeling. Sometimes he doesnt realise how hes acting.>!!
2006-09-05 01:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would have died all ready because I can't handle the silence between my boyfriend and I. Talk to him and try to find out whats the problem.
2006-09-05 01:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by ...guess.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how your feeling. If he's not willing to put forth the effort needed to have a great relationship, then he's simply not worth your effort.
2006-09-05 01:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say this, if he is not doing anything special now, you can count on the fact that it will only get worse and he will take advantage of you.
2006-09-05 01:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him to go out w/your girlfriends and enjoy forget about him,dont worry he will worry sick one of this days looking for you and asking you the same you asking now our opinion
2006-09-05 01:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him because guys really don't know what you want unless you tell them. Girl I am serious.
2006-09-05 01:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by underlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Mr. Rays!!
2006-09-05 01:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by ken31pop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore you? that's pathetic.
dumb him, no matter how nice he is. i was in the same situation before. 'nice' is just a way of defending him that's all.
2006-09-05 01:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋